Shibari Suspensions 2019: A Step by Step Guide

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Before starting with suspensions, it is important to be aware of the safety protocols. Shibari is a practice that requires knowledge and practice. And, if Shibari itself can be in a way dangerous, suspensions are the most dangerous part of a Shibari practice. That said, it’s very possible for the degree of intensity and the level of risk of full suspension to actually remove it from the category of being optimal for sexual or erotic play for a lot of people. This post discusses the ins and outs, the ups and downs, and most importantly, the whys of suspension. Another reason I want to do it – a much bigger reason – is because of the sheer helplessness it creates – and that is huge. I like to do partial suspensions on my bed, using the overhead rafter, because then I can suspend someone’s torso and add an extra degree of helplessness to what the person is feeling.

Safe words are also an important part of Shibari, as with any BDSM activity. “These are words or signals to indicate that either one of you want to change what’s happening,” says Midori. Richmond agrees and recommends something really random like “poodle.” What’s the history of Shibari? A major misconception about Shibari, and other forms of bondage, is that it's painful. That's just not true, according to Richardson. "In general, it doesn't hurt, it might be a little uncomfortable," she says. The idea that you'll get bruises or any types of injuries from Shibari? Also "100 percent not true."Suspensions can be an incredible experience to enjoy for both top and bottoms. Suspensions in Shibari require really good skills, practice and dedication. This program has been designed based on the extensive teaching experience of the Studio Kink Team. It will take you through a number of patterns and exercises to cover a large skill set which is focussed on bondage for suspension.

For illustration, picture someone on their knees, bent over, ass in the air, their torso suspended parallel to the bed in a chest harness, helpless and waiting for whatever I want to do to them… unable to run or get away because the suspension or “up line” also acts as a leash or tether. The rope is tight around them, they can’t get away, and they know damn well that they’ve been placed in a sexual position. You know your body, its needs and capabilities. Work within those. Be sure to let your top know of any medical issues you have, particularly those related to joint or muscle issues, heart or circulatory issues, or diabetes.

there is a significantly increased risk of injury; nerve damage, circulation issues, strained muscles, etc.