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I would get frustrated talking to her on WhatsApp, both of us trying to decipher each other’s intentions and senses of humo(u)r through the complexities of cultural differences and intergenerational differences and plain old personal differences. We did our own thing during the day: I went to events like Olivia’s joint programming with Sapphire Publishing to see one of my literary heroes, Dorothy Allison, speak about the future of lesbian storytelling. I think there was also a part of me that liked tempering my fastidious long-term planning, my conventionalism, my seriousness with their wild spirits, their rejection of every social expectation.

The first was that they’d slept with someone else, just once, when they were on a solo vacation, before we’d agreed to any sort of open-relationship terms; I felt like they’d forced my hand.

Now these new friends, new underwear, new makeup, new cloths, new everything but the friends had no influence on her decision.

And that’s because of all the things that happened in the eight days I spent aboard the Summit — things I wasn’t remotely expecting. Also speaking before Elvira was Rachel Wahba, Olivia’s cofounder, who told us the story of the original record company’s fateful pivot to travel: Olivia president and founder, Judy Dlugacz, wanted to offer a cruise to the women who’d so faithfully bought Olivia albums and concert tickets over the years, but there weren’t a lot of cruise companies eager to charter a boat to a bunch of lesbians. One of the co-plaintiffs from the country’s marriage equality suit was in attendance, together with OUTBermuda and the Bermuda Tourism Authority. I opened it to find her casually leaning against the doorframe, looking overwhelmingly hot in her tux. Watching one of my friend’s dads talking at the wedding dinner about how much he loved his daughter and her new wife, I teared up a little and said something to my partner about it: “This is actually pretty nice, huh?

In August 2004, following over a decade of criticism and pushback, the chain rolled back its restrictions, pushing for more inclusive marketing. When we left, wobbling down the sea-bucking hallways, she offered me her elbow, a gentleman from the first.

Nonmonogamy, then, seemed like a sort of part-time solution to much deeper issues I wasn’t yet ready to grapple with.

Just like with sex that involves people of any gender, the definition is fluid and depends on the individuals. I was curious, totally unaware of why I was so staunchly fascinated by these strangers, like objects in a museum. She and Matie also hung up a white board outside their door and encouraged their neighbors to invite them to their play parties. We know not just women have vulvas and vaginas (some transgender and non-binary people do, too), and that not all women and people with vulvas who have sex with other women and people with vulvas identify as lesbians (they may identify as queer, bisexual, or pansexual, for example). Anywhere we go, including New York, our home, if we’re not obviously engaged in some type of PDA, my identity, as a femme lesbian, is often erased.

Dr Bisbey is keen to point out that it's not genital-to-genital or genital-to-mouth contact that constitutes sex. The women who’ve faithfully gone on dozens of Olivia trips over the decades are getting older, and I didn’t have a lot of faith that younger queer people were going to step in and save companies like this from extinction.And were it not for this story, there’s no way I would have voluntarily set foot on a cruise ship again. In truth, some queer people love scissoring and do it regularly, others say it doesn’t work for them and it’s not part of their sex lives. It's easier than ever to get tested, with home STI kits - like these from Sexual Health London - that can be sent to your home free of charge.