Asking for a Spanking

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A couple of times when faced with the choice of my mom grounding me or giving me a spanking in my teens, I asked her to spank me. She grounded me instead, which by the way is what I really preferred. I would rather have been grounded than to have had to pull down my pants and get my bare butt spanked when I was in my teens. My mother said ok and took my arm, led me to her bedroom and took her dressing chair out. Then she took her wooden hairbrush, sat down and told me to stand on her right side.

I got along very well with my stepmom, but she did believe in bare bottom spankings when I stepped out of line. I recall one day during the summer when I was nearly 12 and we had a disagreement over a pair of expensive athletic shoes. She provided good reasons for not purchasing them, but I was still upset and made a few comments that I immediately felt guilty about. I agree and felt my mother taking my hand and leading me to her bedroom. She pulled a chair out, grabbed her wooden hairbrush and sat down. I personally do not recommend Midnight's advice whatsoever. On so many grounds. Acting up just to provoke a response from somebody who is likely not even a spanker is just not how an adult should act. While he may “ask” for a woodshed whuppin’ by his actions and/or attitude, he has never verbally asked me for one. That is until just the other day, when he came up to me and earnestly asked if I could please find a time that worked for me, to take him to the woodshed.

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After a talk about this my mother told me that if I wanted to go through with this, she would gladly put me over her knees and spank my bare bottom like a naughty little boy. Yes, I have before. One time I failed a test and my dad asked me if it was because I was lazy or if I was really having trouble. I told him I was having trouble, and he offered to help. Eventually he was being so nice that I admitted I had just been lazy and probably deserved a spanking. He bent me right over his lap. I felt so much better after!!

Will...were those few times you opted for a spanking from your dad worth it, rather than be grounded? I wish to ask a close friend to spank me. To my knowledge, he doesn't know I'm into this sort of thing, and though he's the most open-minded person I think I've ever met, I'm afraid of rejection and possibly losing him as a friend (though there's almost no chance of the second one happening, anxiety insists it's a guaranteed thing). Going on caningabottom's comment - i will say this "do something childish and see how this person responds" no harm no fowl if this is meant to be it will happen and if not well you did try.

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The fascination is strange. I had cousins who were spanked like that and I thought it was a lie because my parents never did that. How embarrassing!-I thought. I had been spanked over my pants but never bare; I couldn't even imagine it. My aunt was a bossy woman and ran that house so I could see her administering a spanking but I somehow thought that I was immune from her because I wasn't her kid. She had friends there, she had respect, she even had a few who envied her. Also, quite possibly, a few ladies, especially the young mothers, were in awe of her, even, more than a little scared of her. I’m not defending his actions, I personally believe hitting children is wrong, but my Dad has always been my hero and he’s ‘rescued’ me more times than I would care to imagine. Protected: A Naughty Little Witch…A Private Little Story for Club Members Only ~ featuring Suzette.

Mummy was a perfect product of the 1950’s. A dutiful housewife who had kept an excellent house since the day she married. Sadly her husband was no longer around, but stoically, with a stiff upper lip and a gallon of fortitude, she had carried on running the house, her home, with pride. Karen liked the strange feeling she felt (in a certain in a certain intimate area) at being exposed. I wish I had done this when I was around 12 or 13. I had a snotty attitude and wasn’t as respectful to my mom as I should have been. I felt really bad about it, but also didn’t stop doing it.I told her I wanted to know what it felt like and that I felt like a naughty boy just asking her to spank me. The first time I took him up on this offer I think I was 12 and wanted badly to go to a 'school social' on a Saturday night. I was told by my dad that I could leave the house for three hours to go to the social, but that if I was even a minute late, it would be a bare bottom spanking with the BELT instead of his hand. The spanking would happen the next night - Sunday night - after I'd gotten my homework done, before bedtime. Hope it turned out just as you expected. For the benefit of future readers, I'd write a note. I've many friends whom I'd cheerfully spank, but I'd never assume that their being cranky, bratty, or childish was their asking to be spanked. That's a dangerous assumption to be making! Just be naughty to him. Maybe he will suggest giving you a spanking. If so....Bare your bottom and tell him to have at it.

I got to place my talley mark and soon school was over. I remember my bottom way throbing and sore. After my husband died I went awhile without a spanking. Spanking and submission are a lifestyle for me and I was lost without it. My best friend was a guy I've known since I was 15. He knew everything about me except that I have always been spanked. He knew I was submissive, but didn't know how deep it went. The first part of it is that Joey has earned himself a trip to the woodshed. Actually been owed a trip for a little bit. But even in the past, when I’ve told him he is getting taking to the woodshed, he won’t remind me during the times when it would be convenient for me to take him there. He’ll try to fly under the radar, until there are moments when we can’t go to the woodshed, then he’ll act up again. What a brat! W-Well..." I swallowed hard, crossing the street with her to my house. "Ashley and Becca...Th-They both got in trouble, so...."Has anyone done this before (asking a close friend/loved one to spank you)? How did you ask? What would you recommend I say/do to ask my friend for such a huge favor? I'm absolutely lost. And not just horror, either. There was also guilt. I had been doing the same exact thing, burning the paper right along side them...But I didn't get caught. Now they were taking the punishment that I should've also received. The combination of that guilt and the fear of also being found out and punished was starting to make me tear up as I sat there, waiting to be taken home. Ok young man if you want me to spank you, I will and you will be punished like that again until I decide to stop my mother said. I nodded and blushed deep red as I asked her to give me a hard bare bottom hairbrush spanking straight away. The closest that I ever "volunteered" for a spanking was at the end of elementary school that was more of a dare and weird fun. Note: if you aren’t familiar with my vocabulary, see my Contract regarding “Reward,” Commitments, Transgressions, etc.