The Empowered Wife: Six Surprising Secrets for Attracting Your Husband's Time, Attention, and Affection

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If you've been trying to "fix" your relationship and it's not working, maybe the problem was never you, or your husband, or even the two of you as a couple. Maybe the problem is that nobody ever taught you the skills you need to foster respect, tenderness, and consideration. Every show highlights the worst relationship advice of the week, reveals the very common mistakes that everybody seems to be making and shows you exactly what to do instead to have a playful, passionate relationship--like over 15,000 women who have already transformed their relationships and become Empowered Wives. In this training with Laura Doyle herself you’ll learn Laura’s storytelling methodology, build your story library for coaching, and create the mini and long-form stories that will attract your ideal client to you. LISTEN TO THE SHOW: 3 Signs Your Husband Is Not Supportive Now It feels terrible when the guy who used to trip over himself trying to help you is now interested only in staring at his phone or staying at work all the time. What a disappointment. Especially when you have so much to do and so many responsibilities because you set out to be partners but now he isn’t

I remember how frustrated and angry I felt when my husband and I could not see eye to eye. The 6 Intimacy Skills gave me the tools to express myself in a way he could hear. Now he treats me like a queen. I put substantial time and energy into self-care, which used to make me feel guilty and uncomfortable. I notice many of my clients face the same challenge. One woman asked me to clarify whether it’s still self-care if she dropped off a letter at the post office while she was on her walk, even though it was the endorphins and the change of scenery she was after. Another asked if playing games on her phone still counts as self-care even though she only spent ten minutes doing it. Well you will definitely know what men need after reading TAM for a while: what they really need is blow jobs. :wink2:I make no excuse for anything I’ve done and I regret my past. I am no longer that person of 20 years ago. LISTEN TO THE SHOW: How to Handle the Silent Treatment with Dignity The silent treatment can make you feel really bad and desperate to end the tension. It’s scary and takes up a lot of energy wondering how long it’s going to last, if it’s still on, and if there’s something you should be doing differently to fix it. It feels horribly rejecting when someone you love won’t speak to

Now an internationally-recognized relationship coach, Doyle has shared her secrets with women around the globe, saving thousands of marriages with her fresh, revolutionary approach. I want every woman to know the simple, practical things she can do to create the gratifying, exhilarating, addicting experience of being loved every day, just for being herself. I don’t know what to do. For years o didn’t feel oved, I handled everything, didn’t feel appreciated, felt like a single parent and I had so much resentment towards my husband. I decided I wanted him to hurt so I had affairs. But that didn’t make me happy just made me more mad at him because he was really the only one wanted to be with. The critical one that is being neglected is the one you point out—taking care of herself and finding her own pleasures every day. Which would mean letting go of the non-controlling or controlling behaviors she has tried so many times before with him. Just let go. And realize that she can’t resolve his issues for him. When do you say right up front…it’s critical to psychologically protect yourself at this point? I think it bothers me too that her husband has read your book (I’d say, keep the book away from men in our lives, too—maybe that could go into the title) and he seems to be perhaps using it against her best interests. Plus, my guest Erin’s marriage was doing okay, so she was blindsided when her husband announced that he was moving out. There was another woman. But in just a few months of using the 6 Intimacy Skills™ and the Connection Framework, miracles happened in her marriage. Wait until you hear what she did! I think you’re going to want to do it too.Therefore, to have more time, be able to do what you enjoy, a nd be a responsible person who gets her work done, start by taking a bubble bath. Unless you don’t find that enjoyable, in which case you can go mountain-biking, or gab with your mom on the phone, or knit a scarf.

That’s why my coaches and I have helped over 15,000 women make their relationships playful and passionate again.

I mean that I have enough time to get everything done a n d enough time for self-care too,” she said, “which seemed impossible to me before when every second was taken up. The only explanation is that my time has somehow expanded.” The Six Intimacy Skills—the proven system that has inspired and helped over 15,000 women in 19 languages and 30 countries make their relationships playful and passionate again—and the magical Laura Doyle 5-Step Coaching Methodology are exclusive to the Laura Doyle Connect campus. Without a system of practical, specific things to do and say, coaches are reduced to merely listening, encouraging and providing accountability. But in our experience, that simply isn’t enough. If our clients knew how to change by themselves, they would have done it already. Providing coaching around the application of The Six Intimacy Skills gives us an unfair advantage over every relationship coach in the world. I agree with the focus needing to be on herself (and not him, though.) It has already been too much on him. Been there, done that to a great degree as many of us have. During this time of separation, I agree, it is great time to totally focus on herself—your first step in your book. I just wondered why you were not more straightforward as you discuss in the book, very wisely, the kind of men that often will not be ones that are enough for any given woman. Just wondered as I read your answer. You can read about Laura’s philosophy here, and how it all got started here to see if it feels right to you to embark on this journey. You do mention deal breakers in your book and it seems that there are issues Donna points to that could fall into that category (I know it is her decision, obviously). When a man says, if you do all these things for me, just as I want and THEN I can/will be as you desire, that appears very narcissistic, manipulative, and blaming. What is Donna to do with that from your perspective? Or what are healthy options? It seems she has done many of the intimacy skills and they aren’t enough for him.