MASTERING THE ART OF CUNNINLINGUS (ORAL SEX): GUIDE TO GIVING HEAD LIKE A PRO (Oral Delights)

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The best protection to use is a dental dam, essentially a thin sheath of latex or polyurethane that can stretch over the vulva. If you can’t find one, you can make one by cutting a condom into a rectangle sheet you can stretch out over the area. Georgia says some good outercourse (fka foreplay) can help build arousal and anticipation for the main event. Fellatio– also known as giving a ‘blow job’– involves using your mouth or throat to stimulate a person’s penis. Here’s how to do it: 18. Start slow I’m not the only one either. Pip from Dubbo says “I’ve been with men and women and I love going down on a woman but I’ve never felt the pleasure of receiving, I’m up in my thoughts or hungry for more stimulation” If you get a head grab (as long as you're ok with it) or some good moaning or writhing, you know you're onto a good thing. You can of course, also take a breather and ask.

We don't want to name names, but lots of people out there go straight for sword-tongue when they start giving a woman head. Please do not do that. Like any sexual experience, oral sex is often best when you play the long game. Work your way up to engaging the most pleasurable areas of your partner's body to ensure they feel the most arousal and tension possible, Sabat suggests. In this scenario, start with the vulva and lips. With your free hand, you can touch her breasts, gently squeeze her nipples, caress her stomach or place under a butt cheek for support. I think the best way to do that if your face is right up in the puss, if you tilt your head kinda from side to side, you can get a little air in through the sides of your mouth, If you’ve got a nose that’s buried in puss, it’s a good way to get some air because you should be prepared to go down for a long time. Opening our horizons to new and more expansive representation is a must. Especially because there is a direct link between sex misinformation and sexual violence. One way that we can do this as a society is to examine the "traditional" roles within relationships and debunk misogynistic views, like sluttiness and easiness, which are often attributed to women (not men) who engage in casual sex frequently (amongst other completely normal things). This ‘sexual double standard’ has damaging implications where women’s safety and perceptions of sexual deviance (read: autonomy) are concerned.

Words like “sinful”, “unnatural”, “perverse”, “degrading”, “degeneration”, “transgression”, etc. reflect the points of view of the various ancient authors, and not my own. An easy way to switch things up? Stand during oral sex . While most cunnilingus positions involve you sitting or lying down, the Lean Forward has you standing up and — you guessed it — leaning forward while your partner kneels behind you. Feel free to use the walls for stability, be they in your bedroom, your living room or your shower. Most women do not like a pointy, hard tongue on the clit,” said Tribby. “Try flattening your tongue and using broad strokes.” Then feel free to get your hands involved, fingering the vagina, or stimulating other parts of the body. You can also use your tongue to penetrate the vaginal opening, just get right in there. Alex B. Porter is author of the new book The Cunnilinguist: How To Give And Receive Great Oral Sex (Independent Publishing Network).

Believe it or not, hydration is another factor that is very important to genital health. ‘You should always consume at least two litres of liquid daily,’ says Sabat. ‘Water is highly recommended, but some people enjoy consuming fruits, vegetables, fresh juices, and smoothies to further eliminate bodily toxins and achieve a better flavour. Natural fruits, especially blueberries, papayas, lemons, pineapples or apples can even cause our genitals to taste sweeter.’ 6. Stay health-conscious

7. Get permission before biting. Seriously.

Prepare down there. The first step to reducing fear and anxiety is to pee and perform some basic hygiene. You’re probably fine without this step (skip the flowery douches, please!), but if you’re at all worried, a shower can help calm your nerves.

I think breathing is really important, you’ve gotta get some air in there if you’re eating puss for a long time,” Bella says. This word is notoriously difficult to translate, but likely refers to the receptive (passive) male partner during anal sex. For this reason God gave them up to degrading passions. Their women exchanged natural intercourse for unnatural, 27 and in the same way also the men, giving up natural intercourse with women, were consumed with passion for one another. Men committed shameless acts with men and received in their own persons the due penalty for their error.” (NRSV) Demonstrate and participate. Playing with yourself while your lover watches can be extremely hot and it allows you to show them what gets you off. Once they get down to business, lend some helping fingers to expose your clit to their tongue. It takes women 20 minutes on average to reach orgasm, so it’s important that you settle in for the journey, too:

Cunnilingus gif: positions to try when stimulating your partner with your tongue

As Rebecca Traister wrote in Salon at the time of the 2003 movie's release, "a mustachioed and criminally attractive Mark Ruffalo takes recovering-moppet [Meg] Ryan to bed, plants her on her stomach, spreads her legs, and performs oral sex on her from behind in a scene that lasts a breathtaking two minutes." Finally, oral sex gets more than a couple seconds of screen time. She is utterly correct: Hollywood is sexist and sex-phobic. I'm not going to use this as an excuse to rant on the topic, though -- been there, done that. Instead, let's take a moment to recognize the best moments in cine-lingus history, shall we? Some of them are funny, some are sexy, and all deserve kudos for venturing where the MPAA would rather they not. A little prep is essential on both sides. For the giver, trimmed nails and clean hands are important when using fingers in or around the anus. For the receiver, a through clean in the bath or shower using gentle soap and water is a must. And as ever, be sure to use protection. ‘Like any other oral sexual practice, you should always use barrier protection to prevent the spread of disease and infection’ says Sabat. ‘You can also use a dry condom or a latex glove to create a barrier at home.’ 27. Slow and steady