Strict Leather Padded Leather Locking Posture Collar

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Whether it is right or not, people will see it, assume certain things about you, and judge you for it. At mildest, they might question your professionalism. At most, it can cost you your job. Ah... before I forget about it, of course a submit to a Mistress would be performed in the same way and also with a kajirus (male slave).

A collar does not mean that the person is involved in a 24/7 or TPE relationship. And to be fair, I think it’s important to note that it doesn’t even mean that one is a full submissive or even a sub/ bottom at all!! Kinky person here. First off, thank you to AAM for always being so sex-positive in this blog. It’s truly great how often you show respect for people’s consensual activities (be it open relationships, kink, or other) while staying focused on what’s good business advice. Another area where they’re similar: For me at least, both are core parts of my identity. Neither really feels like a choice, and while I could choose to stop acting on them, it would involve denying a part of myself either way. (I know there are people who do feel that they choose them, but I’m speaking to my personal experience here.) As for bigboicat, you’re not being forced into a sexual scenario or pulled into a their kink because you see a collar. For a lot of people it’s not “kinks” or “scenes” it’s a lifestyle and again can have the same sentimental value as a wedding band for some. And again I can make the same statement for such rings and claim that I have been forced to be aware that they are in a relationship and having sex with someone. ??? It sounds nonsense when you try to make that argument against a ring and it’s the same way for a collar. Wearing a collar doesn’t make someone more likely to go to work thinking about their sexual escapades from the night before and not wearing one doesn’t make them any less likely. In my mind, a wedding ring has two purposes – 1) as a reminder/symbol to yourself of your commitment, and 2) to advertise to others that you are in that relationship. There are plenty of married couples that don’t have sex and sex isn’t the sole purpose of marriage, so I don’t think that argument holds up.Among those people, there’s a huge range in what they’re actually into. Some do the master/slave thing (though even then, there are times when they’re more serious about it and times it’s more lighthearted). Others don’t. Some are into really hardcore things in bed. Others basically have sex with a little spanking or fuzzy handcuffs. Others don’t have sex at all. Some have a firm D/s dynamic. Others just like how a collar looks or feels, and want that symbol of commitment, even though they don’t conform to a specific power dynamic. In this case, I’m thinking about it like this: We still do pretty well separate out sex and relationship dynamics from the role of the person in your life when we’re dealing with coworkers. Like reasonably you know your coworkers have sex with their spouses, fight with them, have more private and deeper positive and negative feelings about their lives with this person. Leave your collar on at all times, except when cleaning it or as directed by your healthcare provider.

TMI, I was in a D/s relationship, and my sub, as a male in a business conservative sort of world, was completely unable to wear a collar outside of home or particular social situations. We made it part of our ritual – when he came home, the collar went on. I took it off him when he left for work. We made it work for us. Just figure out how to make things work for you both. Collars play an essential role in BDSM relationships, and selecting the right type of collar is crucial to ensure that both partners understand the level of commitment involved. Whether you choose a training collar, play collar, protection collar, ownership collar, or posture collar, it is important to communicate openly with your partner and establish clear boundaries to enhance your BDSM experience. Traditional Leather Collar First of all, in terms of safety around machinery, or OP’s next job which may or may not be like her current one – I expect OP has thought of these things already.I fall into the below that if I had to think hmmm is it or isn’t it, then it’s fine for the office. Like I don’t want the gory details of my colleague’s sex lives but even if I knew someone I worked with was in a healthy/consensual BDSM relationship I wouldn’t care because I assume they wouldn’t be sharing the details and what they do in their bedroom is none of my business.