NJOY Pure Wand

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Whip out that new toy when you’re actually turned on (and not as a way to turn yourself on). “Think of it as foreplay,” Fleming says. “If you want to build up reception to a new toy, start off when you’re already highly aroused. The research is clear that people tend to be more open and receptive when already aroused.” If you're new and looking for tips, do not skip reading their Getting Starting wiki. Advanced users may find value in their Advanced Skills section. As with all Njoy toys, the sleek stainless steel design of the Pure Wand means it can be used with silicone, water or oil based lubricants and can be cleaned easily with specialist anti-bac cleaners or warm soapy water.

We hate to be the bearer of bad news, but the G-spot? Yeah, that doesn't exist. Sorry!! Ofc, internal stimulation is still very much a thing, and when done well, folks with vulvas may even experience squirting (aka female ejaculation). How can you achieve a sheet-soaking orgasm, you ask? You can get there with penetrative sex, oral sex, or by using fingers—and there are even sex toys for squirting that can help get ya over the finish line. And while there isn't a one-size-fits-all squirt sex toy that'll work for everyone, we've got plenty of suggestions that have reviewers gushing (heh). On using a vibrating massager and lessons learned: Thread: I Just Had My First Prostate Orgasm (Twice!) Ease of Use: 4 / 5 | Durability: 4 / 5 | Fun Factor: 4 / 5 | Features: 4 / 5 | Value: 4 / 5 | Overall Rating: 4 / 5Insertable vibrators: Internal erogenous zones like the G-spot can enjoy vibration too! An insertable vibrator will have a longer shaft than a clitoral vibe, and may have an upward curve that aims for the G-spot. You can use an internal vibrator on its own, or pair it with a clitoral toy for explosive blended orgasms. How to Use: Use the power button to turn the toy on or off, and the “+” and “–” buttons to adjust its intensity. If desired, apply water-based lube to the head of the wand before using. This is the original couples' vibe," O'Reilly says. Its ingenious shape stimulates both the G-spot and clitoris at once during penetrative sex, and it can feel great when used solo too. With its 10-plus vibration modes, there's always something fun and new going on. Plus, it's waterproof for a little shower action (and it's like it gets clean in the process). How to Use: Lay down the Throw on your bed (or wherever else) before masturbating or having sex. When you’re done, you can machine-wash it. The best sex toys for women have come a long way—and made a lot of people come—from the humble beginnings of steam-powered vibrators and rubber dildos. It’s always been more a more wide-ranging category than the equivalent tools for men. (Though one look at the best sex toys for men shows that changing in recent years.) It can be difficult for beginners to know exactly what adult toys to buy for the first time, whether you're shopping for yourself or a partner.

I also like that the Wand doesn’t have any vibration. It requires you to do all the work, and kinda forces you to slow down and take your time. Sometimes the efficiency of a standard vibrator can encourage lazy yet rushed masturbation. The Wand is such a nice change of pace, and you’ll realize after the first use that the payoff is so worth it. Pros: Stimulates penis, perineum and balls all at once; can also stimulate your partner during penetrative sex; increases erection strength and sensitivity; four motors for intense vibrations; 16 vibration intensities and eight patterns; can be controlled via the MysteryVibe app The design: The exaggerated curve of the Pure Wand, combined with its bulbous ends, basically makes this toy a magnet for internal orgasms. "I’ve taken this toy on [sex] dates and had friends try it," says DiMartino. "It’s the cause of a lot of people’s first internal orgasm."How to Use: Hold down the middle button to turn the toy on or off. Use the other two buttons to control the toy’s intensity level. Apply water-based lube to the nozzle of the toy before putting it on your clitoris. Women wanting to explore their G-spot. This is a fantastic product for women who have never been able to find their G-spots before. I can’t overstate its simplicity. Any toy you use should be made of nonporous, body-safe materials like medical-grade silicone, stainless steel, or lucite. Importantly, “[A prostate toy] must have a flared base so it doesn’t slip inside,” says Dr. Queen. And be sure to use lube, as the anus doesn’t self-lubricate. The best prostate massagers While nothing can be more subjective than an opinion on a sex toy, the efficacy of this legendary device designed to make it rain orgasms has actually been proven by science. A 2008 study found that over 93 percent of a group of 500 chronic anorgasmic women—meaning women with a persistent inability to climax—could reach orgasm using the Magic Wand. That finding, plus the consensus view of very happy magic wand owners I’ve spoken with over the years is what led me to invest in my very own Hitachi magic wand in 2012. On the "Balance Ball" technique: Thread: My Hands Free Njoy Pure Wand technique that reliably leads to Super-O

They've become such a die-hard fan that the Pure Wand always makes an appearance at DiMartino's "Squirtshop" (yes, that’s a workshop that teaches people how to squirt). "It’s probably the single best thing for learning how to squirt, second to understanding how the process works," says DiMartino.One of the most exciting days in my entire career as a sex toy reviewer was the day I received this formidable dildo in the mail. It's eleven inches of stainless steel from tip to tail, and offers you two different sizes to choose from with its double-ended design. While I'm not always in the mood for its beefy girth, it's one of the only dildos that can consistently make me cry from how intense it feels. Not to mention, it's so beautiful that you could display it on your nightstand like an objet d'art. It’s incredibly well-designed. For G-spot stimulation, you’ll find that the curve of the Wand perfectly places the ends right where they feel best. The weight helps it deliver a ton of pressure. The G-spot needs intense stimulation, and boy does the Wand deliver. You can try adding clitoral stimulation with a vibrator or your fingers for an orgasm that may require peeling you off the ceiling. The stainless steel: Most sex toys are made of silicone, which is wonderful, hygienic, and often feels good. The Pure Wand is different because it’s made from a solid metal, meaning it's a great conductor of hot and cold. That makes it the perfect toy for temperature play—a kind of sex that’s all about heating things up or cooling them down.