A Girl's Guide to Femdom: Tips, Tricks, Rituals and Punishments for Every Week of the Year

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Discover the joy of Female-Led Relationships and connect with like-minded partners on MatriarchMatch. Even during gentle femdom, facesitting is sometimes used as a soft punishment where the sub is encouraged to lick and suck the pussy whilst being told what a good sub they are for learning their lesson. For some, it does teeter too closely to the edge of not being gentle femdom enough but if you’re careful and do it right, it absolutely can be. There’s nothing wrong with that, and you should check out this post, if that’s what you’re looking for. She makes the rules, sets the boundaries and she has the final saying; while the man loves and supports her in her role.

I blindfold him and play with him as I please, I usually do slow kisses, hold a vibrator on his balls and cock, and gently place my thong or socks in his mouth whilst giving him positive reinforcement. When it comes to the appeal, it could be that donning these roles helps us escape our everyday life, whether the role involves giving up or taking control. It takes a great deal of trust for someone to make themselves vulnerable to you, so respect it always, then and their choices. If your boyfriend has been treating you as his personal ATM, either kick him out or walk out the door.

Also, ruin orgasm techniques can help males who have a tendency to cum too fast to satisfy their partners better. I have done a much more in-detail femdom resource guide, but this is pretty much all you need to get started with gentle femdom sex toys. That first cpls female is grateful to have been opened up but wouldn’t have put his opened box together with her past open box .

If you kick and scream over every little thing or to get what you want, then you’re playing into the stereotype of the loud, nagging woman. You may have to keep re-applying your lipstick but it’s worth it when he is covered in your lip print over every inch of his body. I created this blog to share my sexual experiences along with the experiences of people from all walks of life. Always put the strap-on harness on before sex as it can sometimes take a few minutes, but remember it does get in the way of oral, and sex.This plus a magic wand with a cock attachment can be beautiful orgasmic torture that can still be gentle.

Strap-on: I’ve played and tested a few strap-ons, these below are by far the best for pegging but just wear one that feels comfy to you and your sub. My feminization routine isn’t as intense as it would be for more extreme gentle female domination, instead, it’s just sexy and an experience for him to wear the hot clothes I wear every day and get treated with tenderness and care. The second way: If your partner is a bit too heavy for the above, you have him get hard, slide on top of him and he then has to go inside your pussy, no moving, no cumming, he must stay hard.Mutually pleasurable interaction is at the center, but all under the direction of the gentle femdom queen. I am actually quite introverted, but my boyfriend and I have a semi-open relationship and it’s really helped me open up and experience things I never thought I would and that’s one of the biggest reasons I created this.

If you stick to the school setting, you can be the principal, but you can just as easily play like you’re alone together in the office after hours. As a Dom it’s not about you having reckless fun abusing them or gratification through some sadistic pleasure in inflicting harm on someone. Alternating between command and reward, all imbued with sense of gentle authority, built up this rhythm that made the acts of pleasure downright delectable. In the bedroom: I do it when I know he is about to cum, I get off his cock and ride his face, if he cums from eating me out, the orgasm is ruined, but I give him another which is an even better orgasm for the appreciation that my pussy in his mouth made him cum. You can ride him around, instruct him to crawl on all fours with your crop and even reward him with a carrot — or something more tantalizing — if he’s a good boy.Those baffled by these behaviors—including other more traditional women—see them as acts of aggression toward a long-established system.