Bad Behavior: Stories

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She characterized the film as "the Pretty Woman version, heavy on the charm (and a little too nice)," but observed that the "bottom line is that if [a film adaptation is] made you get some money and exposure, and people can make up their minds from there. Gaitskill's 1994 essay in Harper's also addresses feminist debates about date rape, victimization, and responsibility. The great intellectual and ethical feat of the essay that follows – a project continued by This Is Pleasure – is its insistence on giving space to both the feelings of violation and the confusing facts. The story ends on this moment of dissociation, a common response for people too traumatized to stay in their own skin. The plot is somewhat beside the point (there isn't really one anyway) as its structure relies on a frenetic assemblage of vignettes flashing between the 80's and the present, and my biggest praise for Gaitskill, is it's humane and unsentimental approach, mixing a cocktail of brutal loneliness with moments of raw tenderness, and she gets down and dirty when the story needs to be, Mary is not afraid to articulate the anguished thoughts and feelings from which we prefer to turn away.

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Since men are more likely than women to be perpetrators of sexual violence, in heterosexual relationships this often means that the man is expected to ask for the woman’s consent. I’ve always valued your writing on the topic of rape and your ability to deal with all the permutations of it that people don’t seem to want to talk about, even people who want to talk about rape a lot.And yet, as the journalist in The Agonized Face suggests, “sometimes you wish it could be that easy”. Instead, her newsletter feels personal and exploratory, like the correspondence of a smart, sensitive, and scrupulously honest friend. My father – and this is when [I was] 13, 14 years old – once said, ‘There are guys out there who would cut your guts out to have it!

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He is also a long-term friend of Margot, who considers him a better person than many of her female friends. As a teenager on the streets of San Francisco, Alison is discovered by a photographer and swept into the world of fashion-modeling in Paris and Rome.Gaitskill has also recounted (in her essay "Revelation") becoming a born-again Christian at age 21 but lapsing after six months.

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Eventually I'm half-way through and even if I still don't like it, I'm like, "Well, I'm half-way through now. The fact that women are harassed, that they are seen as sexual objects, that they are abused, this is all taken for granted in this book. It all started in Paris, strutting her stuff on the catwalk and becoming the mistress of one of the city’s most successful modelling agents, she is still pretty young, and not exactly wise in all her decisions, losing a lot of money, falling in and out with acquaintances (some were never even worth knowing), before ending up back in the States, after her illicit relationship crashed and burned in the city of love. He talked about the Rolling Stones and his six-year-old daughter, after whom he had named the agency Céleste.

Both seem mismatched, and Allison finds her at times deplorable, being appalled and fixated by Veronica in equal measures. But you don’t even notice, because the stories are so immediate that they feel like they’re happening all around you. In it, an unnamed “feminist author” appears at a literary festival and refuses to read from her work.

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The book is centered on the narrator, a former fashion model and her friend Veronica who contracts AIDS. In this collection of nine short stories, each deals with themes of loneliness, isolation and desperation. To me, this doesn’t mean that they were “nice” but that people are so strange and complex, and we have to maintain our humility before that. Gaitskill suggested that rules were quite often disempowering: If you’re told to follow a rule that doesn’t resonate with you (“Don’t sleep with someone on the first date”) or doesn’t seem to fit a particular situation (“Never objectify a woman”), then you can’t develop the kind of personal responsibility that enables you to better take charge of your life. Article ("Mary, Mary, Less Contrary" by Emily Nussbaum) in New York Magazine (November 14, 2005 issue).Yet Margot remains his friend throughout, even as she grows even more dismayed by Quin’s lack of capacity for self-reflection, his defensiveness, and his self-justifications. With other women whom he had been with in similar situations, he had experienced a relaxing sense of emptiness within them that had made it easy for him to get inside them and, once there, smear himself all over their innermost territory until it was no longer theirs but his. Her stories and essays have appeared in The New Yorker, Harper's, Artforum, and Granta, among many other journals, as well as in The Best American Short Stories and The O. I could visualize Alison dragging herself along the side of the road, suffering from pain, asking to bum a cigarette and maybe if I had one to give her, she'd say, "I used to be healthy and beautiful once. It felt like he could have put his hand through my rib cage, grabbed my heart, squeezed it’s little to see how it felt, then let it go.