Someone at a Distance (Persephone Classics)

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Today is Jude’s 50th birthday. She has lived with HIV for over 20 years and has unresolved questions. Only the virus knows the answers. Published in 1953, this is not my typical read, but I was immediately drawn in. It is the story of the North family – wife Ellen, publisher husband, Avery, their son Hugh, who is doing National Service and horse obsessed daughter, Anne, who is still at school. Avery’s demanding mother lives nearby and, bored and resentful, she decides to invite a young Frenchwoman to stay. The closer they get to you, the more guilt they have to feel if they take their sexual interests elsewhere. As with a lot of the books on the Persephone list, Someone at a Distance is a familial novel. Avery North, son of the formidable matriarch, is a publisher. Ellen, his wife, is focused upon, and she is one of the most realistic constructs whom I have come across in fiction in such a long time: ‘Guiltily, pleasurably, she avoided the parties Bennett and North gave for authors, agents and the like… everybody talked vociferously, and though here and there people moved aside, smiling, to let her pass, nobody interrupted conversation for her. Slight, fair, with no idea at all of trying to make an impression, she didn’t look important and nobody wondered who she was’. Avery North works in the publishing business. His demanding mother, Old Mrs. North lives nearby. She is cranky, bored, lonely, and resentful…..so she hires Louise, from France, to come live in her London home — more for companionship, then housework.

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Someone at a Distance, written and also set in the post-World War II years, is the story of a seemingly happy family – Ellen, her husband, Avery, and their 2 kids. Their happiness is the envy of everyone. They seem to be in a world of their own, so happy they hardly need anyone else. Yet, the flaws in this overt happiness become visible as Louise, a French girl, enters their lives as Avery’s mother’s companion, with an objective to disrupt their relationships. As Avery gets attracted to Louise and makes mistake after mistake, his true selfishness in regards to his family is revealed along with Louise’s callousness. And in some cases, you can still try to reach them, and connect to their soul. How to cut ties with a distant person?

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Because when you don’t feel the distance they create, you end up filling up your life with distant people. End of Transmission is not one person’s story. It includes Positive Voices speakers from the Terence Higgins Trust. Niamh, Stephen, Allan, Tim, Roland, Ese, Jess and Mary are people living with HIV who share their stories to help end stigma and HIV transmission. Neither do I like the ending. Ii’s wishy-washy. We observe characters behaving knowledgeable and wise. Give me instead the complicated and the rough and tumble of real life. That, my dears, is quite the mission statement. Persephone Books is the brainchild of publisher Nicola Beauman. Her book, A Very Great Profession: The Woman’s Novel 1914-39, originally published by Virago Press, explores the writings of many of the authors Persephone Books now republishes.

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Your “distant person” might also be a jobless person, or they might have chosen a bad person to marry, and feel shame about that. The first reason is that we are constantly exposed to marketing that enjoys us soaking in our fears and remaining small.On the topic of trust, you may want to study my article Why You Can’t Trust People & 6 Hidden Signs They’re Untrustworthy. The audiobook is narrated by Susan Woodridge. Her narration I have given three stars. It’s fine. She simply relates what is there in the lines. She dramatizes a bit, but not a lot. It’s not their fault. Sometimes people don’t want the stress of feeling deep emotions when engaged in a close relationship. And so, many of us have had less love, affection and attention as an infant and child than we deserved. One major reason is that collecting material things, experiencing “success”, getting attention from new people, constantly experiencing something novel and new, is more important to them.