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The Tardis crash-landed on this year’s Children in Need BBC show and never has a seemingly throwaway skit achieved more in its five-minute running time. This special “minisode” not only promised much for Doctor Who’s bold new era (which starts on Saturday 25 November on BBC One at 6.30pm), it also enabled the show to right some wrongs from its 60-year past. Well, even those dastardly Daleks need reparations occasionally. Birk brings up the “fawn” response as to why people-pleasing has become such an epidemic. This defense tactic is a way to offset a threat. So many of us are terrified of setting boundaries in our lives because we’re used to being people-pleasing doormats. We’re scared that the people closest to us will view us setting boundaries as harsh, mean, and unloving.
The only people that will get mad at you for setting boundaries are the people in your life that didn’t benefit from you having any in the first place. Read that again.Upon first glance at this post, you might think that the villain era means a period of your life where you are an actual villain. Where you’re unkind to the people around you. I want to be very clear when I say that is not what the villain era is about. But, in typical Gen Z fashion, nothing is quite as it seems. As usage of both terms has continued, definitions have shifted slightly. While “entering your villain era ” is well-established as a method of reclaiming your time and focusing on your own needs , “ main character syndrome”, ironically, is now internet shorthand for exactly the kind of self-centeredness you’d expect from a villain. People will start to think tha t you believe you are better than them, they might even confront you and say nasty things. But that is further proof that you don’t need them in your life anymore.
Women are lovers, nurturers, caregivers and everything in between. This means that sometimes we end up using all of our energy on everyone else and we aren’t even on the priority list. Over time this leads to declining happiness and sometimes resentment. Tiktok is like a wise and hip aunt who along with some fashion or beauty advice also imparts advice (sane and sometimes not so much) about life and love. Obviously, with a wine glass in her hand. Being a villain has always meant being a walking red flag. Probably with imaginary devil horns. Villains are portrayed as truly evil, always mean and generally difficult people to deal with. But this era is for the girls who have always played polite, when they don’t want to but especially because they are okay to compromise on their own needs and wants.But, it’s not a bad thing at all and you are healing parts of yourself in the process. Here are 7 ways to fully indulge in your villain era: 1. Set boundaries Think of a villain, and your mind might skip to dark lairs, evil deeds, and questionable moral decisions. We can’t wait to see all of our Libra baddies standing up for themselves this summer. Go off, bestie! Sagittarius:
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