Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders

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To the chastened male, his keyholder becomes the most beautiful, desirable, and unattainable woman in the world – and what man wouldn’t enjoy wooing and perhaps even winning such a woman, over and again? The cuff takes the place of the ring that fastens about the wearer’s genitals; apart from that, these devices are similar to other tube-type designs.

The very fact that he has asked you to act as his keyholder – or agreed to your request for his chastity – means that he wants your input and direction just as much as he wants your body. On her blog she recently had a survey on humiliation that clearly showed her audience was into humiliation. Fantasy and Reality If your man is submissive (and as we’ve seen, a surprising number of men are) then he is likely to have some specific erotic fantasies that involve domination and submission and that go beyond the simple fact of being locked in chastity. For example on the first day (and your man should be sexually sated when the exercise begins) he might enter a ‘1’ for horniness and a ‘1’ for frustration.In another survey, only one percent of males claimed not to masturbate (and you have to wonder about the reliability of that one percent). Due to Sarah Jameson's Money back guarantee I decided to spend the 70 USD on her Book "Be Careful What you Wish for" and that is the book I am planning to give to my wife to read. After all, you surely have one or two things that you wouldn’t want to share with him… Almost all men masturbate, even when they’re involved in a committed relationship. Your aim is to find a product that is comfortable, practical and safe for him to wear, that is escape=proof, that is made out of suitable materials (consider any allergies he may have) and that also looks good. He might nag you (or even beg you) for sex but you don’t have to permit it unless you’re genuinely in the mood (you don’t have to permit the nagging, either).

Some couples who practice male chastity use prostate massage to regularly ‘flush’ the man’s reproductive system, the idea being that his can help counter any long-term health risks.Such activities can be at least partly explained by the fact that a typical adult male has several erections each day, and several more while he sleeps. For proper comfort and security, a tube-type device must satisfy several requirements as described below. I would have loved to have a bit more feminist theory in there as well, however, it does give some examples of patriarchal dynamics and behaviors and how chastity can serve as a pragmatic feminist tool to rebalance those.

Choosing a plastic locking system also means that there’s no key to take care of and nothing that might get lost, providing another argument for using such a system if your man remains in chastity while traveling.That does not describe all people in to chastity but I believe a majority including a vast majority of her readers. Tube-Type Devices A tube-type device will not normally need to be custom-made (though several manufacturers offer a custom service). According to this philosophy, the journey is more important than the destination; the means are more important than the end. Don’t worry too much about that: superficial anxiety can actually be erotic for a man who knows, deep down, that he’s in the hands of a beloved, trusted, loving woman – and the fact that he has offered or permitted himself to locked up by you is evidence of that trust.

Sex games are uniquely individual: the details, variety and inventiveness of such games are entirely at the discretion of the couple concerned. As a couple, you may discover that male chastity brings a new closeness and a re-kindling of desire that you had perhaps thought left behind with your dating/courtship days.

The above discussion has mainly been about the possible effect of various periods in chastity on your man’s physical health. Alternatively, if you wish to reassure him, you could touch or fondly whatever is reachable (which might just be the enclosing metal or plastic at this point) and tell him that you’ll miss his penis and wish it wasn’t necessary to keep it confined for so long (but that it’s for his own good). Exercise Two: Chastity Diary The second exercise requires your man to keep a diary during his periods of voluntary chastity, recording how aroused and frustrated he felt from day to day. He’ll end up preferring the bar or the golf course to his own home, choosing the society of his buddies over that of his own family. When he does, let him see how much you enjoy it; let him appreciate the effect that his attentions, and the situation, are having on you.