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I HATE my sister. We used to be very close and tell each other everything. No more mostly because I don’t get anything from her anymore about what’s going on for her emotionally. When we talk and I ask her how she is doing, she inevitably says in this soft, sweet voice “I’m good, we’re good, I’m good”. Not a lot of real sharing! You want people to be unaffected by the world situation? To get up every day thinking about nuclear war, go to work, go to their activist meetings, believe we make a difference, maybe drop in to the local climate change club. Hey will have a party.

That’s terribly sad if a therapist is responsible for making you or someone you know want to die. And of course all the other ways people hurt people are awful, too; I’m particularly disturbed when I hear of “helping professionals” doing harm. I’ve been at the same job for over 35 years and I can’t talk to my family or friends about how I feel. They just ignore me and walk away or think it’s a joke when I say I would like to be dead. (Maybe not those exact words). I guess I’m looking for words of encouragement to get through the day, but get none. I feel like the biggest failure. I feel like I’m always making the wrong decisions. My wife tells me I have to make more money to take care of her father. I believe it’s the responsibility of her brothers and sisters, but she makes me feel bad about it and doesn’t seem to care about what I think. I’ve been called stupid and uncaring. I try to hide my emotions because I know no one cares abou Since I posted earlier today, I have been thinking of my younger brother who committed suicide. We weren’t close in brotherly attachment, but we were bound by the abuses we both went through. He manifested outward anger, whereas I turned everything inward. Yes what John said. Grieving is so difficult but if can find a bereavement group it’s very helpful. It’s a tough journey, with waves hitting you when you least expect it. (Seeing an item in the grocery store that you always bought for them only) Hi Stacey, yes I have had lots of counselling and talking therapies. The problem I have is that most of these “therapies” have a “one size fits all” kind of response. But not everyone is the same and that’s why, I think, none of them have really helped me.I am glad that it finally worked out for you. My son has applied to a ton of companies and has had a few interviews but can’t seem to pass even the initial phone interview. He is very discouraged and so am I. He has a lot of skills but freezes up sometimes when he interviews. He and I both struggle with depression and all of these rejections have made it so much worse, He is at the point where he wants to give up. Gay’– really? 🙂 And you think it’s more macho to kill yourself? Come on, if you wanna get macho, you know the thing to do is tough it out. This really stunned me. She handed me her phone number and whispered ‘call me.. it’s time to start over’.

The opinions expressed in this blog are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the views of the IDB, its Board of Directors, or the countries they represent.Anyway let’s get it today July 13, 2023 I have now been so depressed the worst I’ve ever been in my entire life where I can’t even get out of bed I’ve always been able to pull myself up I don’t even wanna go outside the only thing I do do is work, I have always been a worker people always said that I was a workaholic I’ve always worked in the bars caring 2 to 3 jobs at a time especially when I had my daughter I was a single mom and I wanted to give her everything we’re poor you know but I was financially stable with my jobs and able to give my daughter a nice little life growing up now she’s 19 I had my depression from her for so long and now she seen the worst of it and she doesn’t understand it she knows how my mom was cause she was around but this time is different I wanna give up it’s too hard life is too expensive I only have one job now because I lost my other job same people that I work for they had two bars and the one I made the money yet I’ve always been known as like the best bartender the fastest everyone says so but I’ve never been good at accepting compliments but we’ve been told I’m so beautiful and even now at my age I don’t see it but what I do see I don’t like I dont see ‘passive suicidal’ as suicidal. No matter what, I would never take my own life. It is true that if death comes my way, I would welcome it. You’re not alone in how you feel although you probably feel alone. I feel alone and have no motivation so it’s down to me that I’m alone, I cancel plans with the few individuals I call friends then I sit at home feeling like I have no friends and watch everyone on fb living their life’s, while I slip in and out of sleep and wish I could be like them. Your despair is so palpable in your words. It pains me to read how much pain you’re in, and I know whatever discomfort I feel is a microcosm of your own. I’m so sorry you’ve suffered so much. One of the things I’ll never understand is why some people experience so much suffering. It’s not fair. I know, that’s a child-like statement, but I feel like a child in my dismay. yes get you. Have called help line. Haven’t had anyone who has offered help Just a speel from whatever they’ve learned to say. I mean I appreciate that they are trying but to tell me to respect my son’s space. it’s being 10 years and I am not well. Plus he has not told me why he is mad at me.

Do you ever have thoughts like these, and you do not want to kill yourself? Many people do. They want their life to end, but they don’t want to end their life. Thanks Stacey for taking the time to reply, I’ve been like this for years and I’ve had counselling in the past, I know all the things I need to do to get myself in a better place but I just get so overwhelmed with tiredness, anxiety,depression,guilt, self loathing that I don’t do any of the things I need to do to get myself out of this place. Thanks again 🙏🏻Sometimes, when life is unbearable, it must be allowed to end. Forcing life on those who do not want life anymore is pretty much the deepest form of disrespect one can give to another. You're attempting to access CouponBirds and are using an anonymous Virtual Private Network (VPN). Please disable your software and try accessing again. I’m sorry about the loss of your beloved cat. I’m an avowed cat lady with multiple cats, so I understand the fierce bond we form with them. Our cats are family. If most people who consider suicide factor in that there is no one in their life they can talk or relate to – why on earth would a complete stranger be able to no matter how much they actually wanted to help? It’s not possible really, so we have nations filled with crisis lines that just don’t work for some of us. I got one who while I tried to explain to him, that in my 60 odd years, I’ve never really been shown any kindness. He actually gave me shit and pointed himself out as one who was being kind. I think he forgot to include that at this particular location, he was also being paid. But I agreed with him and thanked him and he did have a valid point that now I can say in my 60ish years I’ve only found ONE person who showed me ‘text book instructed, scripted and paid for kindness’– Thanks!!

That’s where “passive” comes in. People with passive suicidal thoughts don’t want to do anything to make themselves die. They wish it would just happen. I have tried every avenue to try to alleviate this pain. Nothing has worked and I’m now at the end. I have no more ideas to try. No new doctors to see. No miracle drugs are on the horizon. The trauma you’ve been through is terrible. I’m wondering if you’ve gotten help, or are getting help now? If not, I hope you’ll consider it. You could start with calling 988 to reach the national Suicide and Crisis Lifeline, or texting the 741741 to reach the Crisis Text Line. I’ve listed other options at http://www.speakingofsuicide.com/resources/#immediatehelp.I’ve spoken with many people who, like you, are deterred from acting on their suicidal thoughts because they fear being reincarnated into an equally painful — or even more painful — life. It’s a frightening possibility, isn’t it? And when you are older and come across a young person who may feel like you do right now. You owe them to take their hand and say I know how hard it is right now, but it won’t always be that way. Wishing wonderful days ahead.