This Is Me Letting You Go

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To love without expectation, you have to be okay with yourself. Okay with opening your doors, spreading your arms, barring your heart and understanding that not everyone is going to be gentle with it. You have to know that you can recover from those aches, that you can heal your own wounds, that you can trust yourself to walk away from the situations that do not grow or aid you. I’m texting you this because I like you. Because when I think of you I get this sort-of insane feeling inside of my gut that makes me want to listen to really bad pop songs and go for a run (You know it’s bad when I willingly want to go running). I’m texting you this because I think about your body sometimes, pressed up against mine and what that would mean and how awesome that would feel. I’m texting you this because I like you and I’m wondering if you’ve caught on.” These other, hypothetical universes allow us so many leniencies. They are where we can go to unload our hearts and our failures and regrets. In some Universe, these choices are not mine. In some lifetime, I did it all better. We have to be patient with ourselves as we move through the parts in between the where we've been and where we're going. We have to let the chasm motivate rather than dishearten us. It's okay to not be there yet. It's okay to be unsure of every step that you take forward. We don't talk about how moving on sometimes feels like we're fighting every part of our most basic instincts, but we should. We should talk about how growth is often every bit as painful as it is beautiful. Saya rekomendasikan buku ini kepada pembaca remaja dan dewasa yang mencari buku non fiksi berisi kompilasi artikel tentang masa-masa sedih, sepi, kehilangan, sakit hati, lelah, tidak percaya diri, atau trauma karena konflik relationship. Ini untuk kita yang sedang patah hati, agar terhibur dan bersemangat lagi, agar bisa melepaskan duka dan segera bangkit penuh harapan. Kesedihan memang harus kita hadapi sendiri, tapi alangkah nyamannya jika ada yang bisa mendampingi, salah satunya buku This is Me Letting You Go.

Just because the scene in the rearview mirror looks nicer than the scene on the road ahead doesn’t mean you’ll never reach another beautiful destination. It just means you’re not there yet.” They don’t tell you that nobody can tell you the way love is going to feel for you. That it’s an experience so unique to all of us that we’ll never fully understand what we’re getting ourselves into until we find ourselves right in the middle of it.You need to be alone when you are growing into a new version of yourself. When you are shedding the layers of who you’ve been like snakeskin, you will need the time to bury who you’ve been.” I ABSOLUTELY LOOVVVVEEDD THIS BOOK !!! Maybe it's because this year involved heartbreak over losing my grandmother and losing a relationship with a boy I felt myself falling for. This book was incredible and I loved how it was written. Very poetic, engaging and real. Diana Fitri, biasa dipanggil Dipi, adalah seorang ibu yang gemar berkebun, dan rutin berolahraga. Gaya hidup sehat dan bervibrasi positif adalah dua hal yang selalu ia upayakan dalam keseharian. Sambil mengasuh putra satu-satunya, ia juga tetap produktif dan berusaha berkembang secara kognitif, sosial, mental dan spiritual.

I did reaaaally like this book. It was full of beauty, romance, true feelings, and The Truth of heartbroken people. Was more like a love story. Did not encourage strength of letting someone go, but instead ruminated on and on about loving and missing someone. Untuk mereka yang biasa ngafe atau duduk-duduk nongkrong sambil menikmati kopi pasti sudah kenal kafe yang satu ini. Saya juga tahu Marka cafe karena diajak partner saya ngobrol-ngobrol tukar pikiran...The right people don’t make you hmm and haw about whether or not you want to be with them; you just know. ” There was the one where there was nothing to forgive — where we grew up as slowly as we needed to, never had to turn against each other, didn’t have grater ambitions or wanderings eyes, or weary, mismatched hopes clasped too tightly to our chests. One where everything happened the way it was supposed to. The one where we wanted the same things.