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How To Overcome Findom Addiction: Tips & Strategies To Avoid Financial Domination

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I’ll explore individual stories more later in interviews. But for now, I will spend some time exploring how I believe the problems work from a theory perspective. Depression/addiction encouragement cycle. The fetishisation of problems to deal with them which in turn create more depression and problems.

As time passes, more and more extreme stimuli is needed to get the same rush as the first hit (Like drugs and gambling). When it comes to Findom, the intensity of the rush is directly proportional to the amount of money being sent. I battled and won my internal war with findom and it was a tough one. If I had to estimate how much I spent, I would say it’s in the high five figure range. I found it was a very weird combination of arousal and shame where I managed to link the two together. The messages these so called dommes are putting out mirrored my own views of myself and how I spoke to and thought of myself. I had my own issues where my mum was emotionally absent and nothing I could do could get her attention so paying money to a “domme” to pay attention or to get attention made sense as I possessed neither the cognition nor the awareness around it. I know for me there is still an arousing factor to it. These “dommes” are more like conmen and thieves. Take away what they are doing and they have worse self esteem than us. Unfortunately, for some, this fetish can turn into an unhealthy obsession. Through my online support group, I've met with subs who have lost everything to accommodate the lifestyle of their goddesses. Their addictions have ravaged their finances, relationships, religious affiliation, and physical and emotional health with the same intensity that an addiction to drugs, alcohol, or gambling would. In terms of validation, I don't think that applies to me since I don't have trouble with women and have had a girlfriend for a year currently. I would even lie about myself to a potential findomme and put myself down just because I want to be humiliated and bullied for something. It has made me a bit self destructive.

This is not something I’m making up by the way! And I’ll provide links at the end to rehab clinics for substance abuse which draw these models out. It’s their own fault! They send the money willingly!”If this is what you’re thinking right now, this only shows that you don’t understand addiction. Because addicts can’t give consent. Which one of you paypiggys are going to buy me a new handbag today? Send Send Send! #Paypig #Findom #Cashrape

Being an addict means you’re not in control of your own actions. Which means that enabling their addiction for profit is non-consensual. For those that become badly addicted, it’s not hard to also imagine how the addiction itself it may contribute outright to depression? Not chipped in on an evening with friends. Unable to buy presents. Changing your grocery list to less expensive options. A lot of Findoms are college graduates who are trying to pay off their student loans. Most of them aren’t particularly interested in the kink. Most of them aren’t getting turned on by taking money off of men (Even if they say they are). But they are getting excited by all the free money. (In fact, it’s not only the Paypigs who get addicted, it can also be the Findoms themselves) I've also thought about the root of this addiction and I can't come up with anything other than that it feels so good to me, but sometimes I feel quite bad afterward. At this point, I feel like being a sub and a masochist is part of my sexual identity and it's just who I am, but I need to find a healthier outlet for it. At the same time I don't know if it's findom that is the problem or my kinks (findom is just one part, probably the most unhealthy one), and if I can even do anything about it.However, what I found after enough attempts, and after trying to fix things in other areas of my life, is that many of the things I used to obsess about were becoming less interesting! Ridicule is the best medicine. For most men, hearing a haughty young woman laugh and call them a “loser” would be the ultimate mood-killer. But for pay pigs, such insults will likely result in an erection. Being called a “pathetic old creep” is a particularly potent remark in the findom community. These men don’t feel preyed upon; instead, they are highly aroused. You can expect the future to see a further rise in porn addiction and consequently Findom addiction. So what do we do?

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