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In one standup monologue, Martin says that their mother drew diagrams for her young child to illustrate everything from the missionary position to anal sex. On stage, Martin says that on the first day of school, aged four, they told any pupil who would listen how to perform anal sex while delivering the savage blow that Father Christmas didn’t exist. Martin admits there was comedic licence there – it wasn’t quite the first day, but the essence of it was true. “I was delivering a lot of hard truths to the kids. I was just like: I can’t believe we’re all living in this charade.” Comedy has defined most of Martin’s life. It was a means of escape as a child, a catalyst for chaos as a teenager, and has ultimately provided a path to redemption. After 14 years clean, how has Martin changed? “I’m less manic, more aware of my addictive behaviour. That enables me to write about it with a bit of perspective.” Does that addictive behaviour express itself in safer ways now? Martin smiles, more with relief than anything else. “Yes, I think I’m a workaholic these days.”

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She is fun to sit with. An afternoon discussing social politics with a comedian more brusque or earnest than Martin would be a slightly exhausting prospect. But she treads so lightly and with such conviction that the segues from her coconut allergy to the reaction to strap-on dildos in Feel Good to trans rights carry me gently and jollily through our conversation. It’s only later, transcribing, that it strikes me how radical her post-identity politics might be. Equally as importantly, though: Feel Good is really, really funny. A lot of that's down to the easy friendship Martin and Ritchie share. They try to work out what they like most about each other's performances. MM: Oh interesting! Interesting. I’m trying to think who would be who. Mae to me would be Paul, because Paul’s the romantic. But then John’s got the edge… no, I can’t. I feel too invested in that analogy to think about it.Ambiguity is a big theme this series, and the idea that things not being one thing or another, or defined as one thing or another, is okay. Actor Charlotte Ritchie, 31, grew up in south London and was still finishing her drama degree at Bristol University when she landed the role of Oregon in Channel 4 student comedy Fresh Meat. Subsequent TV roles include Alison in Ghosts and Nurse Barbara Gilbert in Call the Midwife. She co-stars as George in Feel Good, a semi-autobiographical romcom by comedian Mae Martin, who identifies as non-binary. The show won two Royal Television Society awards earlier this year and is nominated for a Bafta at next weekend’s ceremony. Editor’s note: The following review contains spoilers for Season 2 of “ Feel Good,” including the ending.] Five years ago Martin transferred her addictive obsession on to this script, this series, and she digs her hands into her knees at the thought that soon it will be out, in the world, with all the judgment and mainstream fame that might mean. She wants to be clear: it is comedy, not therapy. “No this is not purely some cathartic therapeutic exercise for me. Me and Joe [Hampson, her co-writer] really just wanted to write a good comedy that had a lot of heart. It’s a work of fiction. But it’s got an emotional truth, because it’s based on experiences I’ve had. I’ve dated lots of girls who’ve never been with a girl before, for instance, which makes for quite a romantic and painful dynamic.” I’ve been learning the piano and trying to get into meditation. I’ve also been doing food bank deliveries on my bike for this great group where I live in east London. That’s been a welcome reminder that most people are lovely. Having spent a lot of time online or reading the news over the past year, it’s easy to believe that the world is horrendous and everybody’s awful. Meeting strangers is good for you. It reaffirms your faith in human nature.

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CR: I think also there’s a real truth that in life there’s a lot of jokes, and actually more than anything we use humour as a deflection technique and I think that that’s so much more realistic in some ways than people being articulately written. So much of the time when you’re uncomfortable or you don’t know what to say or you feel like things are going wrong you’ll make a joke to alleviate the situation rather than necessarily launching into a full-scale argument. People don’t always have the mettle for that and actually so much more often they’ll divert into humour, and personally I’m such a big fan of the genre in general because it feels more true to life. It’s so frustrating that so much of identity is about comparison. I just feel like myself. I don’t even feel non-binary. I just wake up, have a coffee and go to work,” Martin explained.

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Martin eventually got clean at 20. Life was transformed. Martin became more confident, embarked on a five-year relationship with an “amazing woman”, moved to England, worked in call centres, dressed as a giant tooth to sell dental pamphlets, and supported non-verbal autistic children. Meanwhile, their writing improved, becoming less sketch-based, more personal. Martin got regular work in clubs, did a couple of TV specials, and then came Feel Good. CR: A fit little squirrel, thank you for that. It’s funny, it’s only when you asked me just then, but when I heard them in the script, I really think Mae’s talking about George – I don’t associate them with myself. Obviously that doesn’t make that much sense, but when I hear ‘fit squirrel’, I’m like that’s so sweet, George is a fit squirrel – but now I’m like, that’s what you and Joe think of me. They’re good with words, these guys! Good with words. Sarrubba, Stefania (1 June 2023). "Taskmaster finds its season 15 champion in bizarre finale". Digital Spy . Retrieved 8 June 2023. Tonight's (June 1) final episode saw the coveted golden head going to Mae Martin, who earned the precious trophy by finishing off with 174 points total. Martin’s comedy is self-deprecating and gently philosophical, a far cry from the long-reigning standard of ranty monologues spewed by disaffected dudes. Martin allows earnestness in, as opposed to, as they put it, performing in sunglasses. In the noughties, one of Martin’s heroes, Sarah Silverman, adopted an ironic persona – a squeamish, ignorant proto-Karen – as a way to smuggle in a social critique, but still fit in with the bilious stand-up culture of the moment. Martin admires how Silverman has more recently stated that comedy is not evergreen: “As society evolves and changes there’s things you just wouldn’t say now, and you just have to keep listening and evolving. It’s not that hard to not be offensive.”

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