Leaders Eat Last: Why Some Teams Pull Together and Others Don't

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Leadership takes work. It takes time and energy. The effects are not always easily measured and they are not always immediate. Leadership is always a commitment to human beings.” While this didn't blow me away like Start With Why did, it did validate a lot of things I've always hoped were true. Children are better off having a parent who works into the night in a job they love than a parent who works shorter hours but comes home unhappy.” Social Changes: how our societal values and norms have changed with the post-WWII Boomer Generation, followed by Gen-Xers and Gen-Ys, to become increasingly dopamine-addicted and imbalanced.

Truthfully, you are better served watching this brief TED Talk delivered by Simon Sinek himself. Here: http://www.ted.com/talks/simon_sinek_...? Dopamine rewards us with happy excitement whenever we complete a task, while serotonin and oxytocin help us form relationships with other people. Endorphins disguise exhaustion and pain as physical pleasure, inspiring us to push beyond our limits. These hormones also drive our behavior in social settings, creating a distinction between the "strong" and the "weak." In hunter-gatherer societies, for example, hunters who secured meat for the community earned higher status, while weaker individuals took on less prestigious roles. However, the hormones also add cohesion to these hierarchical structures by giving the weaker individuals a serotonin- or oxytocin-based warm feeling towards one another and the leader, rather than destructive stings of jealousy. Sinek's main purpose in writing this book is not to help others become better leaders so that they can jump up the corporate ladder, motivate subordinates, or increase productivity. The message of this book is that we need better leaders so we can have a better world; empathy is at the heart of his argument. While 50 Shades was atrocious, at least it was not masquerading as self-respectable business book, whereas Sinek lost absolutely any credibility he might have had by pretending this book was anything more than an overstretched TED talk with zero new insights to bring on the table. They naturally tend to have a deeper sense of respect, admiration, and devotion to leaders. Together, the four shape our behaviors. So selfish hormones help us accomplish things, and altruistic hormones help us relate and better collaborate with others.One of the key ideas presented here is that a company's culture and values are shaped by its leaders, particularly CEOs, and can have a significant impact on employees' mindset and behavior. The author argues that running a successful company is not just about managing finances but also about creating a culture that influences how employees approach problems, interact with customers, and prioritize values. Weak individuals, the worst hunters, on the other hand, were relegated to supporting roles in the group. If hormones such as endorphin and dopamine have developed the aptest individuals to lead, hormones such as oxytocin are more present in the weaker.

In Leaders Eat Last, Simon Sinek, internationally bestselling author of Start With Why, investigates these great leaders from Marine Corps Officers, who don't just sacrifice their place at the table but often their own comfort and even their lives for those in their care, to the heads of big business and government - each putting aside their own interests to protect their teams. Summary Points & Takeaways from Leaders Eat Last Whether it is with employees, customers, colleagues, or rivals, it is essential for a leader to have real connections with people so that he or she stays focused and honest in understanding their needs. IT’S ALL ABOUT THE LONG TERM Simon Sinek offers insights on how biological triggers and mechanisms work in the context of team-work and leadership, and explanations on why certain leader behaviors are appreciated or disliked by their peers. At the same time, Sinek offers some advice on how better to treat peers, colleagues and subordinates from the perspective of a leader or co-worker. The importance of social connections: The author highlights the importance of social connections in creating a culture of trust, and provides examples of how organizations that foster strong social bonds between employees are more successful and innovative. A supportive and well-managed work environment is good for one’s health. Those who feel they have more control, who feel empowered to make decisions instead of waiting for approval suffer less stress. Those only doing as they are told, always forced to follow the rules are the ones who suffer the most"Integrity is essential for building trust with the group. A leader must be honest and forthcoming about their mistakes and take responsibility for them. This creates a foundation of honesty and trust that is vital for building a sense of safety within the group. When leaders model integrity, they set an example for others to follow, and this strengthens the group's overall integrity. I know of no study in history that describes an organization that has been managed out of a crisis. Every single one of them was led" Building a culture of trust: The author provides practical advice for building a culture of trust, including how to create a supportive and inclusive workplace, how to establish clear and open communication, and how to develop leadership skills that promote trust. Sinek’s unconventional and innovative views on business and leadership have attracted international attention and have earned him invitations to meet with an array of leaders and organizations, including: Microsoft, MARS, SAP, Intel, 3M, the United States Military, members of the United States Congress, multiple government agencies and entrepreneurs. Sinek has also had the honor of presenting his ideas to the Ambassadors of Bahrain and Iraq, at the United Nations and to the senior leadership of the United States Air Force.

For most of us, we have warmer feelings for the projects we worked on where everything seemed to go wrong. We remember how the group stayed at work until 3 a.m., ate cold pizza and barely made the deadline. Those are the experiences we remember as some of our best days at work. It was not because of the hardship, per se, but because the hardship was shared. It is not the work we remember with fondness, but the camaraderie, how the group came together to get things done. And the reason is, once again, natural. In an effort to get us to help one another during times of struggle, our bodies release oxytocin. In other words, when we share the hardship, we biologically grow closer.” This section was extremely helpful, but it has received criticism about its overgeneralization of millennial behavior. As someone who works with children and millenials, I found this criticism to be true. Many of the characteristics he mentioned -- especially impatience, inability to deal with failure, and task perseverance -- are seen in younger children rather than millennials. This can be attributed to the influence of technology from a young age, which was not experienced by most millennials since the boom of PCs and mobile phones occurred in the mid-90s. One important thing to take away from Leaders Eat Last is that the success of a company depends on its culture. If the employees are happy and feel safe at work, they’ll succeed at their job and the company will strive. It makes sense. The leadership role has a heavy burden, so think once again – are you able to manage this massive responsibility. YOUR BIOLOGY ASKS YOU TO LEAD OR BE LED. There, leaders eat last. Once you can put your needs aside and focus on your team, they will recognize you as a genuine leader.In times of crisis, a leader will use all his/her personal resources for the good of the community. In the US Marines, the oldest members are always the last to eat.