All Your Perfects: A Novel: 4 (Hopeless)

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You specify that like marriage partnership is a Category 5 storm. Not each of the minute, Yet I definitely assume there are Category 5 mins in every marriage partnership. I do not presume Ethan along with I may have endured those minutes.”. We’re also going to have bad days and sad days and days that test our resolve. Those are the days I want you to feel the absolute weight of my love for you.” Fontos dologra hívja fel a figyelmet: egyetlen házasság sem tökéletes, de tudni kell kezelni a problémákat és kitartani egymás mellett, bármit is hoz az élet – ha igazán szereti egymást a két fél. Én örömmel konstatáltam, hogy Quinn és Graham szerették egymást eléggé ahhoz, hogy ne eldobják, hanem megjavítsák. Nagyon tetszett a doboz ötlete. Talán nekem is szükségem lesz erre a dobozra, jó gondolat, amely segíthet felébreszteni a kihúnyó érzelmeket, emlékeztet arra, hogyan is indultak a dolgok. Quinn and Graham’s perfect love is threatened by their imperfect marriage. The memories, mistakes, and secrets that they have built up over the years are now tearing them apart.

Disclaimer: I HAVE read this book. So my judgement is as valid as any of yours. I was polite enough not to rate this one star like it deserves, however that changes now. Now I’m the one shaking my head. Not only does Ethan work for Dr. Van Kemp... his father is Dr. Van Kemp. How does this guy know so much about Ethan?Colleen Hoover könyvei közül szerintem ez volt a legfájdalmasabb. Egy nagyon nehéz témát dolgoz fel: Quinn nem tud teherbe esni, pedig hatalmas vágya családot alapítani, gyermekeket nevelni. I wish I could say I’m sorry for wanting a baby more than I want him. But that wouldn’t help, because it would be a lie. I’m not sorry.” Firstly I’m so sorry that I gave five stars to your book. If goodreads application let me borrow five more stars to give this book, I happily do that! Minden egyes szó a lelkem legmélyéig hatolt, és míg a múlt fejezetei mosolyt csaltak az arcomra, addig a jelenben a főszereplőkkel együtt sírtam."

Unfortunately, the past and present storytelling ruined the momentum for me. I hated it. Just when the story starts to get really interesting, you get pulled into another scene from the past and it became so frustrating! It was like Ugly Love all over again! I easily and effortlessly fell in love with Quinn. Everything she was going through, and the way that CoHo wrote about it, felt like such an accurate depiction of depression. I felt for her constantly and my heart is still filled with so much empathy for this fictional character. There's always been a difference between crying over a book and a book making me cry. And this one really toed the line. But isn't that a sign of a good artist? I've always found crying to be a release of feelings I didn't need to hold onto anymore, and I got a whole lot of feelings out with this read. I think Quinn and Graham reminded me of my parents, in the way they acted around each other, and I needed to get pent up feelings about that out. I’m the residential bitch here, but I solemnly pray all of you who support this BS, never come to a hard time in your life when you go into depression and then get blamed for it and get abandon and betrayed by your spouse. That would be the only way you’d know what the heroine was feeling, but honest to God, no one deserves it.Miután szót ejtettünk a regény érzelmi mélypontját képező szálról, érdemes megemlíteni a műnek azt az aspektusát is, ami feloldozást nyújt a fájdalom alól. Nem az ide-oda illanó csalfa vak reményről beszélek, hanem valami sokkal mélyebbről eredő dologról, amit nevezhetünk hitnek, optimizmusnak, túlélési ösztönnek – akármilyen névvel is illetjük, ez az, amit a könyv becsukása után is magunkkal vihetünk. Én személy szerint a saját bőrömön tapasztalom, hogy az élet nem csak móka és kacagás, meg fenékig tejfel, de mégis, az ember bármilyen nehéz helyzetben találhat valamit, ami kisebb-nagyobb szinten boldoggá teszi. Nem arról van szó, hogy mindig optimistának kell lenni, hanem arról, hogy bizonyos dolgok önhibánkon kívül megváltoztathatatlanok, és ahelyett, hogy szélmalomharcot vívva ezek miatt keseregnénk, megpróbálhatunk azokra a dolgokra koncentrálni, amik megelégedéssel töltenek el. the book blurb is a bit ambiguous, so i will keep my review vague as well. i will say, though, that the struggles this couple went through were not something that i have ever read about before, nor was it something that i have experienced personally. regardless, i found it so easy to empathise with these characters and have my heart hurt for them. it took me awhile to warm up to them, quinn in particular, but goodness, how my heart ached for them throughout this. There is so much in life that we can't control that sometimes I think we forget there is a lot that we Can. Quinn and Graham are a reminder that we Can make anything out of our circumstances, that some dreams don't come true... but we Can always make new ones. Graham gives a false reason as to why he did it, which he later on told Quinn the truth in his letter. His initial reason was "the whole time I had my eyes closed, I pretended it was you.”.

The one thing that could save them might also be the very thing that pushes their marriage beyond the point of repair. Four and a half billion years old,” he says. His voice is full of wonder, like this is his absolute favorite thing to talk about. “Do you know how long ago our specific species appeared?”

If a scientist could figure out how to align the heart with the brain, there would be very little agony left in the world." The #1 New York Times bestselling author of It Ends with Us—whose writing is “emotionally wrenching and utterly original” (Sarah Shepard, New York Times bestselling author of the Pretty Little Liars series)—delivers a tour de force novel about a troubled marriage and the one old forgotten promise that might be able to save it. Quinn as well as likewise Graham pleased in unusual scenarios yet it appeared destiny indicated for them to be with each various other. Their love was a fairytale till the gladly ever after curdle. Their understandings of an outstanding collaboration as well as likewise excellent family members create right into an uncontrollable as well as likewise hazardous obstacle that is harming their lives. I don't want to give anything away, so I won't go into plot specifics, but it goes way below surface level and discusses a myriad of issues and concerns that people deal with on the journey through infertility (or just fertility issues in general). All the insensitive comments of well meaning people, the guilty internal struggle when everyone around you is having babies, the expense that comes along with pricey fertility treatments that may or may not work, and the mental health decline as you pull out of yourself and get lost in a downward spiral of depression and self-deprecation is all touched on. Before you shake your angry fist and scream "But what about adoption!", don't worry, that's discussed as well. I found myself crying throughout almost the entire book, but especially during those moments that felt carved from my very being and placed into Quinn and Graham's narrative. I remember those nights when Mr. Humphrey (bless him, he really is the best) would hold me close and tell me that I was enough and that he wouldn't give up on us. That moment in the story where the old man tells Quinn that the secret to a long happy marriage is for both spouses to never give up at the same time is SO true, and it broke me to read that after living it.

And the juxtaposition of seeing Quinn and Graham when they meet in the most fated meeting of all time, to their marriage completely falling apart because they both feel so much guilt, makes for a reading experience I don’t even have words for. Side note: CoHo writes the best first chapters in existence. Every one is a mini masterpiece that completely draws the reader in and enthralls and captures them, and All Your Perfects was no exception. I look at him and realize it’s the first time I’ve really taken him in. This might be one of the worst moments of his life, but even taking that into consideration, he’s extremely handsome. Expressive dark brown eyes that match his unruly hair. A strong jaw that’s been constantly twitching with silent rage since I walked out of the elevator. Two full lips that keep being pressed together and thinned out every time he glances at the door. It makes me wonder if his features would appear softer if his girlfriend weren’t in there with Ethan right now. And All your perfects is realistic story about not so perfect couple who are estranged and when they build walls between them, ruining every beautiful memory they’ve created in years, only a small box of letters help them go on!Honestly, why do I bother with the human life?? I might as well become a part of the floor so Colleen Hoover has an ACTUAL reason to step on me. Like YouTube has so many tutorial videos on so many things. Maybe someone out there felt nice enough to upload a tutorial video on, “How to become a part of the Floor?” S akkor jöjjön a központi probléma, ami szerintem langyos vízzé tette a könyvet. spoiler Először szomorú voltam, de azt hittem ezen túl lesz még valami drámai elem, fokozás, akármi, de nem. Csak ültem a könyv felett, olvastam, és fejezetről fejezere vártam, hogy na majd most spoiler de nem. Valóban szörnyű dolog, ismerősök között is többen küzdenek ezzel, átérzem a problémát, nem vagyok egy érzéketlen népművészeti cserépedény, de nagyobb elvárásaim voltak a könyvvel szemben. Igazság szerint, nem érzem úgy hogy kijátszottak volna minden kiskaput. spoiler de oldjuk már meg, ne szenvedjünk feleslegesen az isten ájdon meg. The #1 New York Times bestselling author of It Starts with Us and It Ends with Us—whose writing is “emotionally wrenching and utterly original” (Sara Shepard, New York Times bestselling author of the Pretty Little Liars series)—delivers a tour de force novel about a troubled marriage and the one old forgotten promise that might be able to save it. But seeing these two main characters' stories weave and unweave together, apart, and sometimes a weird mixture of the two, made for a really unique reading experience, and one that I thoroughly enjoyed while reading. I know CoHo isn’t for everyone, but her writing always completely captivates me. A történet két szálon fut. Az első szál a múltban játszódik, ahol végigkövethetjük Quinn és Graham kapcsolatának kezdetét. Sokszor már túl tökéletesnek tűnik, idealizált a szerelmük, azonban én hiszek az „igazi” megtalálásában. Mellette a jelen is fut, ahol minden ennek az ellentéte – folyamatosan elhidegül egymás mellől a pár és a kommunikáció hiánya miatt nem is javul az állapot. spoiler