The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire (20th Anniversary Edition)

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When was the last time you really ravished your woman? That is, when was the last time you really “took” her, savagely, lovingly, with no inhibition whatsoever? The author says that the woman who most turns you on sexually will turn you off for the rest of your life. I’d really like to know based on what does he say that. If your purpose doesn’t align with your form of living, you must be prepared to alter absolutely everything about yourself to make amends and start living the life you were destined to. The Way of the Superior Man is quite wonderful. Finally, a guide for the noncastrated male. This book will offend and infuriate some, inspire and test others, but challenge virtually everybody. I found it wise, insightful, occasionally brilliant, and always resourceful. To transcend the body-mind means to transcend and include its sexuality, not transcend and evaporate it. Few are the books that discuss strong sexuality within strong spirituality, instead of tepid sexuality diluted by a mediocre spiritual stance. This book steps straightforwardly into the challenge. Love it or loathe it, it is a shout from the heart of one perspective of the eternal masculine." He must seek to understand what she really needs because women will rarely say what they actually need. And t he vast majority of the time her turmoil stems from not feeling loved.

These tests will never stop. Men should learn to love their women wholly with all of their faults and never hope the situation will improve, as it won’t. If they can’t love their girl as she is, they should move on and find another one. Even though much more moderate, The Way of the Superior Man is polarizing enough that some people deem it an accidental part of the Manosphere canon. In other words, it is a book that perhaps fans of Neil Strauss’ The Game , Robert Green’s The Art of Seduction—and even Robert Glover’s No More Mr. Nice Guy or Rollo Tomassi’s The Rational Male —should enjoy. Bottom line: if you want her to exercise, don’t ask her to lose x kilos. Tell her you love her body. The bottom line: the more masculine a man is, the more space he allows his woman to embrace her femininity, and vice versa. Own Your Darkest Desires It is time to evolve beyond the macho jerk ideal, all spine and no heart. It is also time to evolve beyond the sensitive and caring wimp ideal, all heart and no spine. Heart and spine must be united in a single man, and then gone beyond in the fullest expression of love and consciousness possible, which requires a deep relaxation into the infinite openness of this present moment. And this takes a new kind of guts. This is The Way of the Superior Man. Part One: A Man’s Way

Part Two: Dealing with Women

This book is a guide for a specific kind of newly evolving man. This man is unabashedly masculine-- he is purposeful, confident, and directed, living his chosen way of life with deep integrity and humor-- and he is sensitive, spontaneous, and spiritually alive, with a heart-commitment to discovering and living his deepest truth. When men have a definite goal like achieving a specific task (finishing a report etc), they get into “do mode” and work hard to achieve their goal.

Disconnected from your core, you feel weak. This empty feeling will undermine not only your “erection” in the world, but your erection with your woman, too.” The female can do her part by letting go of her sense of direction to allow her partner to exercise direction (ie.: be the leader in bed). Women’s ultimate desire in life is love. They reach love by filling themselves up with it through finding a loving relationship and having children, or by using substitutes such as food, conversation, social media, pets, plants, or shopping. Men should have friends who do the same and who help and push each other. With love and caring, our friends should hold us to our highest standards and nudge us towards facing our fears and pushing our limits. Through the use of breath, feeling, and intention, you can contract the pelvic floor near the genitals and draw some energy up the spine. The result is a rejuvenating orgasm, which Deida poetically describes as an explosion of energy into the brain, from where it rains down through the body “like an ambrosial bliss.” Part Eight: Men’s and Women’s Yoga of Intimacy

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Without a conscious life-purpose, a man is totally lost, drifting and adapting to events rather than creating events. Perhaps becoming sexually impotent or prone to mechanical disinterested sex” A big no-no: the feminine is “pure energy in motion” and self-analysis or fixing are negation of this. And if the suggestion for something like that comes from you—that’s even worse! Don’t look for the causes of her mood as you’ll never find the answer. 90% of the time, it’s likely caused by not enough love. Once a week, you should sit down with your male friends and discuss what you’re doing and what you’re not doing because you’re afraid. Ok - so this book was written mostly for heterosexual men, but practically everyone can benefit from reading it. As a straight woman, I was happy to learn A LOT about men (the book explains so much about their priorities and the way they see the world) but was even happier with Deida's explanations about the feminine mind. Today, women are living in a world where a lot of feminine qualities are not valued - we're expected to be successful in some sort of business, intelligent and achieving, and strong. I grew up in Montana and Colorado, and can tell you that flighty feminine emotions are certainly not valued there! And I've definitely bought into the theory that women should be successful achievers too - I'm a 4th year medical student. BUT this book has allowed me to understand all my feminine qualities that I've been suppressing and hiding my whole life!