Cheating Housewives: The Good Whore

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Neatspy works on both iOS and Android. It works invisibly – your wife will never know she’s being spied on. The app works without a jailbreak or a root. Instead, I loitered by the hand dryer, delaying my return to the bar. I took deep breaths to try to ease the tightness in my chest. What was wrong with me? Why wasn’t I happy? He had apparently asked James to follow her and see what she was up to, having heard which bar she was going to that night. In the quiet cubicle, I took my time. I needed to be alone. I didn’t understand why, but I felt overcome by a powerful mix of anger and grief. My friends were too rambunctious with happiness, too excited on my behalf.

Deep down, I felt jealous of their carefree lives. Why were they so keen to celebrate the end of my freedom? I wanted nothing more than to go to bed in a stupor, away from their banter and laughter and high hopes for my future. You may witness one or more of these signs of a cheating wife. Unless you catch her in the act, though, you still don’t have conclusive proof. Your wife may have hidden her “Married to” status recently. She may claim she doesn’t want to advertise your relationship. But is she really doing it so the guy she has her eye on doesn’t get spooked? In this article, we give you over 20 unmistakable signs your wife is being unfaithful: 1. The intimacy is gone If you’re already thinking that cheating might be present in your relationship, chances are it is. While there’s no clinical diagnosis that can uncover whether or not your partner is cheating, there are several signs that could mean infidelity is there.Trust is the foundation of all relationships. You trust your partner to tell you the truth. If that’s not how it is with the both of you, there’s trouble brewing. If your wife isn’t open about her activities, there’s trouble brewing. For some cheating wives, the affair is truly all about sex, says Nadine Kaslow, PhD, a family counselor and psychologist at Emory University School of Medicine. Finding out your partner cheated can bring up an array of emotions. You may feel angry, sad, guilty, betrayed, and more. It is usually difficult to think clearly immediately after you’ve found out about infidelity. You should consider the following:

Calendar events: Your wife may have set up meetings and dates with her love interest on her calendar. Neatspy will let you see them. Intimacy is at the core of every real, healthy, committed relationship. If the intimacy you shared has dried up, there’s doubtlessly something wrong with yours. She’s probably getting her dose of intimacy elsewhere. 2. She treats you differently

Their emotional relationship can also be problematic. If they're joined-at-the-hip constantly, they may be smothering each other's identity. If they are too "distant" and independent, they will likely seek a bond with someone else, he adds. Spitzberg BH. Extramarital affairs. The International Encyclopedia of Interpersonal Communication, First Edition. 2016. doi:10.1002/9781118540190.wbeic0145 The way you treat your partner says a lot about the current state of a relationship. If you’re being treated with indifference, it could be she’s found someone else she can share her affection with. 3. You don’t hear those three words much – or at all Last night out before you’re a missus!” My friend Jaz, who knew me as a party animal, whooped as I downed yet another strawberry daiquiri. She winked and gestured to the barman for a refill. “We’re only just getting started!” Will your marriage weather an affair? "It makes a difference what kind of relationship you have," says Kaslow. "If the marriage is based on friendship, mutual respect, and caring, it can weather many problems. But after an affair, it's really hard to build that kind of foundation."

Even the most devoted of wives complain about household chores. You can probably recall many incidences of your wife moaning about having to wash the dishes. She may have nagged you for help. If your wife is cheating, she may begin to disregard the past. She may deliberately act like it never happened. She may now believe your relationship isn’t worth preserving. She may be seeing someone. 22. Your wife becomes judgmental In a relationship, attitude is everything. In relationships that are going well, both partners are positive about the future. They feel good about the relationship, and each other. The attitude is optimistic and upbeat. Your spouse may also begin to avoid your friends and family. She may decline invitations to social gatherings. If she doesn’t want to be around things related to you, chances are she’s found someone else. 17. She says strange thingsIf you were the partner who cheated, an essential first step towards reconciliation is to take responsibility for your actions. Accountability is a non-negotiable part of the healing process. Hughes SM, Harrison MA. Your cheatin' voice will tell on you: Detection of past infidelity from voice. Evolution Psychol. 2017;15(2):1474704917711513. doi:10.1177/1474704917711513

If your spouse suddenly starts to work too much, you should be concerned. But don’t jump to conclusions just yet. It may just be a phase where extra responsibilities have piled up. Observe and listen to your gut. 7. Your spouse was married before Partners engaged in infidelity often cheat over the internet, either on their computer or phone. If your partner is overly protective of their electronic devices or defensive about spending time on them, that might mean they don’t want you to know who they’re talking to. A married couple's views of their roles may clash: He wants a "traditional" she-cooks-dinner marriage. She prefers the gym after a stressful workday -- not the kitchen. Both styles of marriage can work. "What makes the difference is whether they're in sync or not. When that's not resolved, it's likely someone will be frustrated," says Kaplan. Britney Spears’s father Jamie recently bought footage of the pop star’s then-boyfriend David Lucado with another woman. Have there been radical changes in your spouse’s personality lately? She’s suddenly more outgoing than before maybe. Or perhaps she spends more time with her makeup and clothes than is normal.

3. Periods where your significant other is unreachable.

You should not keep your emotions bottled up inside. Try to find a release valve for that pressure. Share your feelings and what you’re going through with trusted friends and loved ones. She tells you she needs space. She says she feels stifled in the relationship and she wants to be free. What does she need space or freedom for? Maybe she wants the freedom to be with someone else. Her behavior may seem like a good sign to you, at first. She’s happier and engaged with life, you think. But then she begins to stonewall you. And then you wonder: “Has she changed because of someone else?” 10. The sex has stopped – or it’s different Everyone’s protective of their phones. But you have to wonder when your spouse acts jumpy when she sees you eyeing her phone. If you try taking it from her and she snatches it away, she’s hiding something.