Enforced Male Chastity: His ebony girlfriend makes him beg for release! (Caged by his Ebony Girlfriend Book 1)

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Women who own men rarely have reason to marry them. Among Femdomly's younger couples, chastity devices and keys are the closest matches to wedding rings. A sensual story sharing a lesbian woman’s hesitant introduction to chastity. Overcoming sexual dysfunction and exploring the cultivation of desire through denial and submission. I’m not saying that we don’t do other things. We adopted a female lead relationship with discipline (F L R D). In that context I must obey Mrs. lion and I get punished if I break a rule. We’ve both written quite a bit about this. But, make no mistake, that stuff has nothing at all to do with my male chastity. This all boils down to the simple fact that interactive sex must end with male ejaculation. There is no such rule for the woman. Women’s lib has made us more aware of a woman’s needs, but the absolute rule is ejaculation. Female orgasm is a nice addition.

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Remember, in terms of your power as keyholder, time is on your side. It may take a year to get it through his head, but your male will learn that he really needs sex and anything he does to make you extend his waits is just not worth the bad behavior. There are cases when chastity cages may not be feasible as a means to effectively control male ejaculatory activity while the Mistress is away. In those cases, I have developed and employ an alternative method of male chastity enforcement. This method has proven to be most effective at curtailing unauthorized ejaculations. Properly employed, male chastity enforcement is especially effective when the male is away from his Mistress for a period of time. For example, when he must be away on business trips or where the relationship is a session-based liaison. A bit of advice to sub-males and more so female key holders that are curious about long term chastity enforcement. How does one get there? Where do you start? What works? What doesn’t? Don’t take any of the above as absolutes. They are certainly not but take them as guideline to what to expect. The important take away is that you cannot get the sizing right without some sort of conditioning and it will take a bit to make the chastity device not be the center of your male partner’s thoughts. Also do not kid yourself with these 4, 5, and 6 inch devices. Bullshit. Even “average” sized penises are very compressible and really not that big when at their very smallest (think absolutely flaccid, no erection for a long long long period, and the coldest day of winter in it’s smallest mood). Yes that small and then compressed quite a bit. You want zero room for any growth at all from the smallest it can get and no way to squeeze out. Think 2 inches or 1.5 inches. Maybe 3 for a male that has a fairly giant penis. Yes that small.Like a lot of guys, I was confusing enforced chastity with BDSM submission. They aren’t the same thing at all. Enforced male chastity is about one thing: sexual control. I asked Mrs. Lion to take complete charge of my sexual gratification. There was no implied contract that included giving her extra orgasms, cleaning the toilets, or painting her toenails. Our agreement was about the use of my penis for sexual purposes. Written for Mistress Terra to be read out for her OnlyFans account as more of a script. The dialogue sections are marked in bold. I do not receive any devices I use of have used for free. I do not get paid for promotion. My experience with male chastity enforcement devices comes completely from the point of a total “newb” and hard learned knowledge through the long process of implementing a chastity enforcement lifestyle within my own relationship and then through helping others do the same on their own terms. One thing that became quite clear is there’s a huge difference between male chastity devices that are appropriate for real enforcement and those that are just sex-toys meant for a bit of fun. Surprise Number One Enforced male chastity began as a corrective of masculine misbehavior. Mistress Owners dole out orgasms as rewards. For being satisfactory servants, men earned brief release from their MCDs (Male Chastity Devices). I have to deal with a neurological problem with my heart rhythm so the pharmaceutical treatments that are out there ( i.e Viagra, Levitra, Cealis) might be lethal to me.

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I’ve been asked how to give a male a ruined orgasm. It’s not difficult. Start by masturbating him until he gets very excited and appears that he is close to coming. Stop. Wait a full ten seconds. If no semen appears, masturbate him again until he seems ready to come. Wait ten seconds. Repeat and add a few strokes. The ten second wait assures that if he does start to orgasm, you won’t accidentally give him a full orgasm. Even if he wasn’t ready to come, starting again only ten seconds later will drive him closer and closer. If at any point he seems to be coming. Stop stimulation immediately and wait. If semen drips out, you are done. It’s that simple. This isn't necessarily a one or two week agreement so whilst a trust in a key holder is always massively important, one cannot overstate just how important it is when you are going to give up control to this degree. Like a chastity 'game' there is the potential to set rules first however a popular alternative in this arrangement is the complete relinquishing of control to the keyholder. A healthy male’s full load’ ejaculation, after having abstained from release for a fixed period up to a full week, can be expected to weigh between 4 to 7 grams depending on age and sexual health. However, if he has released more recently, the specimen he produces for his Fidelity test will weigh considerably less. This can be light in direct correlation to the time since his last release and the number of times he has released. Because of a male’s refractory period, his sex parts require time to replenish his semen after each and every ejaculation – and thus, a light load is an absolute indicator of at least one recent ejaculation. This indicator is good all the way up to his maximum production. Compulsive, or multiple ejaculations will reduce his production dramatically. Regardless of his state of waiting, feel free to have him provide you with sexual attention whenever you want. But, don’t let him push you into getting more attention than you desire. A lot of males will try to deal with their frustration by convincing their keyholders to orgasm frequently. Take sex from him when you want, not when he wants.It is always best to start slower and ease an inexperienced man into accepting chastity control. Men are used to masturbation and having orgasms, and almost all men will believe it to be difficult and a major sacrifice at first. A good general rule is the duration of chastity should increase over time, so that the benefits continue to multiply, as well as his submission to you. This is not universal, however, as it depends on how you use chastity, what your aims are, how interested you are in having PIV intercourse, and how committed you are to controlling your man.

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The problem here is going to be erections and stimulation. Even the slightest hint of a chubby or hours after a partial erection the a male penis is about 50 times larger than zero erection. In fact there’s a good chance it’s larger than the smallest it’s ever been. That’s the size you need… quite literally something that’s as small as your husband/partner’s smallest penis size ever. The coldest day, the longest it’s gone without an erection, the phase of the moon. Oh and you need it to be a hair smaller than that. If your partner just cannot help but getting a partial erection, figure out a way to wear him out so it’s absolutely flaccid. I won’t be explicit here do whatever works. Length of the device and the part of the device that encloses that actual shaft is far less imporant than the size of what’s referred to as the base ring. Taking on length first, get a device that’s too short. Unless you really are dealing with a micro penis don’t go crazy for the first try but in no way do you need to worry about a device where the shaft is an inch or more too short. In fact that’s what you want. If you don’t go with one that’s too short it will be unwieldy, add unnecessary weight and ultimately will be less suited to all-day every-day wear. With the easy part out of the way obviously it will take a bit to move to a device that’s really short, like an inch max, more on that another day. chastity/ˈtʃastɪti/nounthe state or practice of refraining from extramarital, or especially from all, sexual intercourse. Suggest that after a few weeks you sit down and discuss how things are going. If she expresses concern that her sexual needs won’t be met, you can let her know that your mouth and fingers are always available to her. That’s it. Simple, and easy to follow. This isn’t necessarily the way it’s going to be forever. It’s a starting point. Like anything else that’s worthwhile, it takes time and effort to make it work. Another popular strategy is one based on earned releases, or even point based reward. These systems allow you to focus your specific goals for your man, such as housework, attentiveness, concern for your happiness, and general obedience. This method allows you greater ability to put off releases, and to insist upon higher and higher standards of service, as you are the judge of what merits adding or taking away of points. This method also allows for directly earned releases, where your frustrated man will agree to things he might be reluctant to agree to just to earn a release. As always, the important thing is to keep him highly motivated to obey and please you.Apparently the erection was an indicator that girls used to determine if things were “going too far.” Boys expected that if they got hard, their partner would “do something” about it. Failing to get him off would cause uncomfortable, blue balls. Girls generally believed this. If they didn’t want to do something with their date’s penis they were careful to avoid arousing him to the point of erection. And let's sidestep the idea of 'self enforced' for now, as that strictly speaking isn't enforced or at least to the same degree. We'll keep it on point in discussing enforced chastity with a keyholder. Nevertheless, at last, I found a fun use for my hard penis. Rub it like a magic lamp and I got a giant blast of pleasure. Sex with my own hand was all I knew until my late teens. I went to a boys boarding school for my high school years. I didn’t date. I worked every summer. Sex with another person had to wait until I entered college.