She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman

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Of course, that's with the caveat that they are open-minded enough to not think they already know it all.

Lesson 3: Don’t just think of sex in terms of foreplay and intercourse, it’s about foreplay, coreplay, and moreplay. Shortform note: Kerner explains that cunnilingus is the step where you build your partner’s arousal until she orgasms and that this should take about 15-45 minutes.

I’ve been studying and interviewing her for so long now that I can’t wait to share everything with you. As a woman, I know that I am not just the target audience for this book, but I decided to read it along with my husband. When sex doesn't revolve around penetration, you’re free to stop stressing about issues such as size, stamina and performance. If you don’t want to use pillows, they explain that you can alternatively have your partner scoot her bum to the edge of the bed to gain clear access to her vulva and vagina. In addition, the chapters are very brief (generally only a few pages long), and several of the ones on technique include rep in the form of quick reviews at the end of the chapter, making it perfect for the ofttimes shorter male notice span.

More than just foreplay, Ian Kerner argues that oral sex is the key to a great sex life for both partners. The clitoris is three times more sensitive than the vaginal wall, and women who suffer from vaginal agenesis (i. Fun, informative and accessible, Ian Kerner instructs those left behind on modern sexual relationships, giving much-needed advice to those too scared to ask what they feel they should already know. The thing about sex is that nobody talks about it, which means that relationships suffer from sex illiteracy and many never find out that they can have great sex or how it’s done. Ian Kerner is also a regular contributor to several magazines and tabloids as well as making appearances on various television programs such as The Today Show.This explanation of the resolution phase more closely aligns with the more recent circular model of sexual response. So many women try to be the perfect girlfriends, wives, mothers, friends, sisters, colleagues, business owners, bosses, and more. Since the book’s publication, other sex experts have developed Kerner’s concept of foreplay even further.