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We are all going through something simultaneously. We are all connected. We are all doing the best we can. Let’s keep doing the best we can—that is enough. Every single second where you are, as you are, is more than enough. You are allowed to genuinely enjoy your life. You should never feel guilty for being happy. Taking care of yourself sometimes means not always being the one to worry about others. Because if you’re always worrying about others, you will never find the happiness that you deserve.

Some of the reminders or quotes that I wrote down because they resonated so much are the following:Give yourself all of the time you need today to just be there for yourself. Don’t pay attention to the people who judge you for needing to do what’s best for you. You don’t need anyone’s approval when it comes to taking care of yourself. More than anything though, don’t judge yourself. You are allowed to feel what you’re feeling. You will figure out what you need, but you don’t need to know what that is at this very moment. Let your feelings flow. The people who judge you are not secure within themselves. If they were, they would know kindness is the only way to treat someone.

Pain can lead to vulnerability. Please don’t hold onto unsafe people in your healing seasons because you think they will help you escape from your pain. Safe people are honest. Safe people don’t distance you from the people who care about you. You have to trust the instincts within you telling you right from wrong. You have to listen to the ones who know you the best. You have to remember that someone who wants the best for you won’t take advantage of you in any way. Unsafe people will say anything to make you believe something they want you to believe so that they can find pleasure. They sugarcoat any detail they want to even if it is far from the truth so that they feel good. Please, if you let someone in who took advantage of you, don’t beat yourself up. You were doing the best you could to get through. You were hurting and holding onto any hope you could. Forgive yourself. If you are currently in a situation where you think someone might be taking advantage of you, don’t ignore the red flags. Open up to someone safe and don’t feel embarrassed. You are strong enough to get through, no matter how deep into it you are. You deserve better. But, one of the best, most life-changing things you can learn is to be alone. To love your own presence. To not need another human to make you feel better. Once you learn to love and take care of yourself, you can do anything. You can change your life. You can live your life in a way that doesn’t fill your soul with regrets. You can go to bed every evening and be proud of something that you did that day, even if it feels small. Yang aku suka dari buku ini, adanya perbedaan layout halamannya sehingga tidak membuat bosan untuk dibaca. Gaya bahasanya juga mudah dipahami. Tidak menggunakan bahasa yang rumit. I am so in love with this book. I have never felt so many emotions reading poems so simple. I cried, a lot, I felt so deeply with this book. It made me feel understood in a way. This book will be one of my favourites. It made me realise so many things about myself and that it was okay to just be me. Like the start of the book states:I hope you don’t believe what they did to you was your fault. Maybe you made choices that make you think it was your fault, but you have to remember we don’t always make the best decisions when we’re doing our best to simply survive. Sometimes when we’re living in survival mode we hold onto anyone who holds out a hand even if that hand is deceiving. These are the kind of hands that lie. The kind of hands that touch people for their own pleasure. The kind of hands that get what they want however they want to. The kind of hands that are weak and don’t deserve the souls they take advantage of.

Take a deep breath and let go of whatever thoughts are making you anxious right now. You don’t need to figure it out right now. Founded in 2010, Thought Catalog is owned and operated by The Thought & Expression Company, Inc. For over a decade, we've been at the bleeding edge of media, pioneering an infrastructure for creatives to flourish both artistically and financially.You are on a journey and every experience is leading you to where you belong. It’s really hard to see and trust when you’re living through the awkwardness of the unknown, but you are exactly where you’re meant to be right now. You are experiencing everything you are meant to be. Not everything happens for a reason but everything that happens can lead to a deep lesson and change. Doors that are meant for you will open for you. Doors don’t open until our souls live through and grow through what we go through. One day you will come to a door when you least expect it and it will open. You will be filled with a new light. Until then, be where you are now. Ask your soul to show you what you need to know. “I open my heart to the lessons intended for me. I am deeply growing.” If you need to rest, rest without guilt. There’s so much going on in the world all of the time. Sometimes everything feels too heavy. Your body will fight rest because you remember all of the people you feel are being more productive than you. But sometimes the most productive thing you can do is rest. Learning to take care of yourself will only make you more productive in the future. Even if you don’t feel content where you are, I am so proud of you for being where you are. You have overcome more than so many people know. Maybe there was a time you didn’t think you would make it, but here you are. You made it and you will continue to make it. You deserve to live the life you want to live, not the life others expect you to live. You deserve to be proud of the person you are and love the life you are living. I hope you learn to be alone and love every version of yourself. I hope you learn to let go of what has hurt you and believe that good times are coming. Time is only running out if you aren’t living your life the way you want to. Life is more precious than we realize—don’t take advantage of the gift that everyday is. You deserve to be the happiest version of yourself

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