No More MR Nice Guy: A Proven Plan for Getting What You Want in Love, Sex, and Life

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After the 50s, fathers spent much more time away from home, working, and the home became the domain of the woman. The right woman can be the best part of a man’s life, and the wrong one can lead to personal and financial ruin. Thus, in addition to trying to please others, caretake, and anticipate needs, Nice Guys avoid conflict like the plague. Glover can teach you how to stop overpleasing people, build a stronger character, and avoid having others take advantage of you.

I know it's not an instant fix, but already I feel much better about the direction my life isgoing, and things seem easier when I'mnot trying to make everything "Perfect". I was soamazedabout the book I bought it in kindle and paper (this one I'm going to share it with a friend who is a nice guy too! Hiding your mistakes, repressing your feelings and avoiding conflict by saying what people want to hear (and not what you want to say) makes you a dishonest person, doesn’t it? Then, they’ll start to lose respect for you and your preferences, knowing too well that they’re easy to go around with. Nice Guys are so keen on winning approval because they are afraid of being abandoned as a result of childhood difficulties.Therefore, next time you find yourself in a conflictual situation, remember to stand up for yourself and you’ll see how the situation starts Lesson 2: You are your number one priority, so you’ll have to start limiting your availability to others.

Surrender doesn't mean giving up, it means letting go of what one can't change and changing what one can.The 25-year-old man who finds someone attractive but is too afraid to tell them, the 30-year-old employee who finds it hard to say no or ask for more at his workplace, or the 28-year-old man who feels like they’re being nice to everyone but have no meaningful connections. Robert Glover has dubbed the "Nice Guy Syndrome" trying too hard to please others while neglecting one's own needs, thus causing unhappiness and resentfulness. maybe think a little harder about why things are the way they are, and don't treat women as a foreign other. I didn’t like the title and assumed the book would be too negative or needlessly attacking of women.