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Some tops are less tolerant about shit showing up during play than others. And most bottoms are far more worried about shit showing up than they actually need to be.

Most dilator kits, like this one from VuVatech, start at around 0.5 inches in diameter, which is a good starting point for most. CMR: I have this like, holy image of this tunnel of light opening to you and that’s sometimes how it feels. THANK YOU for visiting my virtual art gallery! Enjoy my original 'social documentary' photographs of various events ! We’re not saying you need to risk bankruptcy or anything, but choosing a quality dilator is important.

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laughs) Right. I mean, when you have your hand inside there’s so many different little motions you can do- you can pulse one finger, you can do little circles… using a toy you kind of get it in there and then you can stir it around a little bit, but there’s a lot less nuance than when you’re using your hands. So some women like using really large toys to get that sense of fullness. Certainly explore that if you want, but know that your hands are the ultimate sex toy ever invented, and use them well!

Relaxing your anus requires a relaxed mind and muscles. Try a hot bath or deep breathing before attempting dilation. If pleasure’s the goal, some solo play should do just fine. Use lots of lube CMR: That’s a great point it’s not a forceful penetration. It’s a gradual opening, blooming expansion of the vagina. We believe everyone deserves a fabulous sex life and thank you for your question. It brings up a topic that a lot of people are actually really curious about judging on the number of searches for fisting according to Google it’s a very popular topic, but there’s also a lot of misinformation out there, so we are going to teach you how to fist your wife on today’s episode. We’ll give you all the techniques you need to explore this, and we believe that yes, you can get your whole hand inside her given enough time, arousal, and your math skills that you will be learning with us today. So let’s start by first clarifying “what is fisting?” So fisting is the erotic act of introducing the entire hand into the vagina or the anus, and anal fisting is another subject altogether. Men and women both can enjoy it, but I think that deserves its own podcast way down the road perhaps. And we’re just going to be talking about vaginal fisting today. And of course this can involved a male or female hand. There’s a lesbian joke that goes around: What do you call a lesbian with small hands?CR:What?CMR: Well endowed! And this comes from the idea that your hands can be a great phallus, a great tool to penetrate your lover with if you do it right. So we’re going to be talking all about vaginal fisting and the fisting part of that term is a little bit of a misnomer because you do not, I repeat, you do not put your hand into a fist as if you’re about to punch someone and push it into the vagina. There is no pussy punching here. But that’s OK because that means you’ve given her all of the penetration she can hold and the sensations will be really intense.

You’re going to need lots of lube. Start trying out different brands of lube with a toy to see which ones you like. A lot of people use J-Lube. J-Lube comes as a concentrated powder that you mix with an amount of water that gives you the consistency you want. It can be a bitch to get the recipe right. You can find advice for how best to mix it if you search online. Look here for more info about lubes. Step 2: Train your ass

CR: We think the hands of the best sex toy ever because they are a sensitive, dexterous, and flexible. They can process so much information from what they’re feeling so that you can respond to your partner’s arousal with the most information because when you use a toy, you can’t get information about how it’s feeling to them in the same way that you can with your hands because you can feel the pulsing, the heat, the openings… There’s just more information you can gather through your hands so that you can provide more incredible sensation and pleasure to your lover. If you’ve never been fisted (or fisted someone) before, you might think it’s not for you. Or that you have to be some sort of superhuman or freak to enjoy it. That couldn’t be further from the truth. So to review, definitely try fisting with your wife it sounds like she wants it and she likes it. Really just thinking about it as introducing one finger at a time, while she’s highly aroused, while she’s touching her own clitoris to maintain that arousal, and only introduce the next finger when her vagina is opening up to it, and is ready for it, and is begging for it. It’s way better to tease it out and make her want it, then to rush it and go too fast. Some people like to fist with gloves, some don’t. They can help increase smoothness around the fingernail but should never be a substitute for well-trimmed and smoothly filed nails. For some, gloves can heighten the erotic thrill, for others they can reduce the feeling of intimacy. If a top has hairy hands gloves can make entry easier, but if they are ill-fitting they’ll be uncomfortable to whoever is wearing them. Gloves can reduce the risk of transmitting STIs, particularly because it is quite normal for people to have minor cuts on their hands. Find more info about wearing gloves for fisting here. Step 5: Know your limits If a healthcare provider has recommended you use dilators, chances are they’ve also provided some guidance as far as size.If met with resistance — which is totally normal — gently remove the dilator, reapply more lube, and try again.