Crossdreaming: A Femboy’s Dreams Come True? (Femboy to Gorgeous Girl)

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The difference, of course, is that the fetishist crossdresser wants to feel the silky, smooth feeling of women’s clothing fabric on top of their own skin, and that’s what so arousing.

The fact that some remain, though, tells us how important this platform has been for trans and gender variant people from all over the world.This is more of a thought experiment, but it’s important because so much of the way we feel as crossdreamers is connected either with what we can’t have or what we’re trying to get. In fact, I’ve written endless essays about them…but I still ask myself if this is some kind of psychological disease. The only thing that one must forfeit is any public activity that requires undressing; and it also means that your doctor, who does your regular exams, will (and should) know what you’re doing. Just in case you haven’t read my blog before, I’m totally unconvinced that ‘transition’ would reduce my obsessive crossdreaming. Most of them will, sooner or later, understand that women also come in all kinds of shapes, and that to express themselves as women, they don’t need much more than roll up some socks into their bras — and just wear appropriate plus-size clothing.

I do not recognize myself in such a description, unless you define the crossdreaming itself as an "abnormally intense or focused behavior or interest. The two communities who rush to answer this question – religious conservatives and transgender theorists – need to slow down and treat it with the respect it deserves. It’s like you’re trying to draw a line between trans and not-trans, and I’d probably be okay being on either side of that line, but you’re making it go right through me and telling me to move out of the way. I don't know how all this could be linked to crossdreaming, but I have noticed it is a bit easier for me to meet aspie fellows in the crossdreaming community than in an average social environment (pls dear fellow-crossdreamers-aspies, rise ur hands!Still, no matter the asymmetry between the many creative types, the simple truth is that there is a wealth of TG creative material out there. However, ‘crossdreaming’ is a more encompassing theory, that provides a common explanation for all those types, and that’s what makes it so appealing to me. i feel it costed me a lot (to make them and to keep them) bc of my frankness, narrow interests and uninterest in physical activities. I look at women for their beauty and clothing rather than to satisfy sexual need ( 80 -20 ratio) , which may be good ( I don't know). Several online friends added comments arguing that they believed they suffered from Aspberger's syndrome.

This would be the starting point for analyzing transnational relations and alliances between Spanish-speaking anti-rights groups and Spanish speaking anti-rights group. They want to be something other than what those people around them expect of them and so the withdraw inward so they can hid that part of them from other people,that's how i feel sometimes. They will get much better skin, less body hair, more feminine facial features (which will not be overly visible to most), and some bulges and curves in the right places — but those will be ‘invisible’ during their daily activity when they present themselves as males. I guess its a fetish then because I identify as male ( I think) and don´t have the desire to act out these fantasies in real life (I think). Even if we’re watching something ‘serious’ on TV — like the ‘Cosmos’ series — or reading a tough book on early 20th-century German philosophy… those are just more intellectual forms of escapism, but they’re nevertheless escapism.There is no doubt in my mind that there are crossdreamers who do have Aspergers, and you might be one of them. I felt comfortable with that label, because it didn’t imply anything ‘sexual’, nor implied a change of life (including a change of gender). Another trait is common among people with Asperger syndrome is that they may display restricted and repetitive and sometimes abnormally intense or focusedbehavioror interests.

And it’s consistent, predictable behaviour of crossdreamers, according to the theory, and, as such, tends to reinforce the idea that the theory is rather well grounded — even if it hasn’t been (as yet) given much thought by the academic community. And even if many crossdreamers follow the template of the "classic crossdreamer" above, there is to much diversity for there to be onepsychologicalreason (like in a specific childhood trauma). The test of whether you are transexual is how you react in non-sexual situations which are loaded with gender meaning.I completely missed the Bitstrips ‘fashion’ when it spammed half the world on Facebook, and just found it recently, and, as you might have noticed, I quickly became a fan 🙂 You might have read about my early attempts of trying to hire a comics artist to draw something from me — a rather long story — which utterly failed. Take away the transition, however, and being transgender/dyspohoric is nothing more than a giant pain in the ass… and starts looking like a mental illness. There is a lot of shame associated with such feelings, which is why many if not most male to female crossdreamers do their best to ignore, deny or suppress them. The same applies to hormone-induced fat distribution to your hips, tights and buttocks — wear looser clothing in straight lines and nobody will notice. I can also say with conviction that my father has a lot of symptoms of high functioning Asperger and my grandmother too had some of them.