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If redundancy was removed from the book it would probably be a quarter of the size. If it was reduced to actionable advice a couple of paragraphs would suffice. Indeed a Cleaner doesn’t respond to external pressure. They don’t feel external pressure because they are focused on themselves and on their own internal pressure. And they put so much pressure on themselves that anything external barely registers. #6 – In Emergencies… They’re All Looking For You
Relentless by Tim S. Grover - Tim Grover
Anger you can restrain and turn into energy... All cleaners have that slow burning blue-hot internal anger.. but it never becomes blind rage, and it’s never allowed to become destructive.... quiet anger into results.” Chapter 10: When You're a Cleaner...You make decisions, not suggestions; you know the answer while everyone else is still asking questions.
But what was limiting about this book is there's far more name dropping than calls to action. Grover basically says if you are a Cleaner you will know you are a Cleaner. Like Michael Jordan. Or Charles Barkley. Or LeBron James. A Cleaner has no problem admitting he made a mistake and taking the blame. He will look at you and say “I fu**ed up” (taking the blame is also what great leaders do). A Cooler will give you excuses. And a Closer will blame someone else. When someone else says you’ve failed, what they really mean is ‘If that were me, I would feel like a failure.’ Well, that guy’s not you, and he’s obviously not a Cleaner, because Cleaners don’t recognize failure (209). Cleaners know who they are and what they are worth. Keep that in mind because a Cleaner will remind you if you make a mistake of forgetting that. Don’t the do-gooders influence you: don’t try to repress your dark side. Don’t force yourself to forget and forgive, to give the other cheek. Use your anger to fuel you!
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Our relationship has to be based on trust or we can't get anywhere. You come to me with complete trust. You follow the rules, or you're wasting your time and mine. It’s about facing your fears and being feared and respected not so much for your physical abilities but for your mental ones. It’s not about “positive thinking”, it’s about having done so much hard work beforehand that he knows everything there is to know.Everyone will tell him he did great, but external approval means nothing to a Cleaner because he only heeds his own standards, which are far above anything anyone can possibly set for him. It’s time to stop listening to what everyone else says about you , telling you what to do , how to act , how you should feel . Let them judge you by your results , and nothing else ; it’s none of their business how you get where you’re going . If you’re relentless , there is no
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