The Big O: The ultimate sex and relationship guide from Twitter guru and LaidBare podcast host Oloni

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WOW – Women of the World festival presents a bold and empowering evening with the author of The Big O, Oloni, who Stylist called ‘the UK’s favourite sexpert.’ I think every women should read this! Such an entertaining and enlightening book. In a world where the orgasm gap is still bigger than ever, this book offers golden nuggets of advice and positive talk, helping women to dispel the sex negative attitudes that society has bestowed upon them. Although, it was written from a heterosexual point of view, I felt like most of the information is applicable for us bisexuals too. The ultimate sex-positive manifesto will show you how to reclaim and pursue your sexual desires, sensuality, autonomy, and pleasure. By breaking down taboos, rejecting shame, and refusing repression, we can all harness the power of sexual freedom and start enjoying the – sex – life we’ve always dreamt of. It would be that everyone – men, women, non-binary people – should have sex how they want to have sex, not how society has historically dictated how they should have sex, to have sex for themselves, not because they feel it will keep them in a relationship, or sex that makes them worry about being slut-shamed. I want people to have sex that makes them feel good about themselves.

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Godfrey, Kara (2015-11-20). "The Cosmopolitan Blog Awards 2015 with Blossom Hill Belle Blush: the party!". Cosmopolitan . Retrieved 2021-01-13. a b c d Gallagher, Sophie (June 14, 2019). "Simply Oloni: Meet The Sex Blogger Who Reinvented The Agony Aunt". HuffPost. Archived from the original on 2021-02-25. Read More Audio erotica: as our love of narrated porn and guided masturbation continues to soar, here are the best places to tune out and turn on Conversations around consent also tap into our understanding of what healthy relationships look like. When you're a teenager, and you're growing up – especially as a woman – we're taught that sex is something we give to a guy so that he wants to stay with us or be with us. Obviously, when you get older, you realise that's just nonsense, but it takes us time to unlearn that. And we shouldn't have to be unlearning something like that. We should know what healthy relationships look like, as well as how to spot the signs of being in a relationship where someone is manipulating or gaslighting you.Olonisakin started the blog Simply Oloni in 2008. She wrote her first blog posts at the age of 18, in response to a sermon that opposed abortion. [5] [2] She said: For level access to the Royal Festival Hall from the Queen Elizabeth Hall Slip Road off Belvedere Road, please use the Southbank Centre Square Doors. The JCB Glass Lift is situated at this entrance and will take you to all floors. All floors are accessible from the main foyer on Level 2. If you need further assistance, our Visitor Assistants are here to help you. Any sized item can be left in our cloakroom, including fold-away bicycles. We don’t accept non-folding bicycles. Items must be collected on the same day they are stored. From time to time, the cloakroom may not be available. You won’t be able to bring any bags over 40 x 25 x 25cm into the auditorium of the Royal Festival Hall or the Queen Elizabeth Hall, or into the Hayward Gallery, so please leave large bags at home. Overall, I enjoyed “The BIg O”. It's provided me with lots of discussions & debates within my marriage & friendship groups. Sex is definitely something we should be discussing more.

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So what kind of sex should we be having? The kind that puts our pleasure up front and centre. Because when our pleasure isn't prioritised, we are NOT going to be having our best sex.” How you orgasm and what helps get you there will be pretty individual to you. Over the years, I’ve seen lots of people claim there are different kinds of orgasms and give tips on how to achieve them, but when it comes to scientific research, the jury’s out on whether there actually are distinct ‘types’ of orgasm or whether we just experience them at different intensities and alongside different sensations. Personally, I don’t think it really matters. What matters is that you feel empowered to explore your body and figure out what feels good to you. Should an orgasm be the barometer of enjoyable sex? In one of the orgasm-gap studies I mentioned earlier, researchers wrote that, ‘Our decision to treat orgasm as a central measure of the quality of young women’s sexual experiences may be controversial. Some might see this decision as flowing from male-centred and medicalized views of sex and argue that women are not particularly concerned about orgasm’ – and while I understand this disclaimer, why can’t we treat an orgasm as a central measure? Imagine if cis men were having sex and never got to nut. Would that sex even count in their eyes?OKAYAFRICA - 100 WOMEN". OKAYAFRICA's 100 WOMEN-US. Archived from the original on 2020-11-23 . Retrieved 2021-01-13. With infectious energy, honesty, and humour, The Big O gives women a space to celebrate topics and conversations that have historically only been whispered behind closed doors. This book will inspire you – and educate you – on how to communicate with your partner (and yourself!) to have the best sex of your life, as well as debunking taboos and delving deep into important topics that need bringing into the spotlight; from masturbation and sex toys, to kinks, virginity, sexual identities, and sex positions you won’t know how you ever lived without. If you were elected ‘Minister for Sexual Health’ (why isn't that a thing?), what's the first thing you'd change about the UK's attitude to sexual health and wellbeing? Orgasms are one of the most intense and euphoric feelings we can experience. In fact, the French have a term for it called la petite mort, which translates as ‘the little death’, meaning a ‘brief loss or weakening of consciousness'.