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BDSM Submissive Punishments: Guide To Punishing Your Sub Like A Pro BDSM Dom (Includes Submissive Training)

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So if punishment isn’t about pain, what is it? Well, punishment really just refers to a consequence for doing something wrong. So, whether something is a punishment is defined by the dominant’s intention to correct behaviour. That is to say, it’s earned. And from the submissive’s side, what counts as punishment is entirely subjective.

Atonement / closure: submissives are often driven by the need to please and knowing they displeased their dominant can be difficult to put to bed. Punishment can offer closure – a clear, easy means of atoning for whatever it is, allowing them to move on. Once good communication and trust are established, then the couple can explore and play. It is important to note that there is such a thing as a toxic, or bad, Dom. Unfortunately, there are some Doms that do not take the submissive’s needs into account and are in it for what makes them feel good. They don’t understand or respect the limits that the submissive has agreed to.

Discipline and Punishment: The Punishment Place: Dealing with Punishment as a Slave

This kinky little game requires the correct accessories, but once you've invested in a vagina pump you're all set. Pussy and clit pumps work by creating a vacuum over the labia and/or clitoris. Increasing blood flow makes the area become (temporarily) engorged and consequently more sensitive and ergo more pleasurable; perfect for a good pounding. 17. Temperature play A ritual is a powerful thing – it’s part of the magic of high protocol. Repeating a protocol leads to habit formation. Notably, this includes emotional habits – you know how you feel every time you watch that one film that makes you cry? Or a song? Somewhere in your head, the emotional state and cue are connected. Something to know about me is that for softer submissive punishments, my Dom likes to make me remove my panties for the entire day, or have me wear Ben Wa Balls. These punishments also work for long distance D/s relationships. I have the most problems in trying go figure out set punishments for breaking the rules, and figuring out what rewards my sub would get from listening me and my rules. Im thinking about kinda grouping the punisments into like from least to most "bad", and giving out the punishment from one of the groups depending on how bad the disregard for my rule(s) has been, as opposed to having just one or two punishments to always give out from breaking a certain rule. To me this kinda keeps it more fun for me and my sub, because they would never really know whats coming, they can only assume. Think about when you want the punishment to occur relative to the offense. A lot of guides out here will say ‘it’s important to punish promptly’, but that’s not a universal truth. Understand the rationale for punishment in your dynamic, your sub’s needs and adapt to what is feasible.

If I have agreed to a particular behavior and I don’t fulfill the requirement or I forget or something, then an agreed-upon or appropriate consequence makes perfect sense. That list is by no means exhaustive, but I hope it gives you an idea as to how varied and complex the role of punishment in a dynamic can be. Why is understanding the role of punishment important?These lists are by no means exhaustive, but it should give you an idea of the kind of thing to avoid.

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