Playing with Myself

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Simran Sethi is a journalist who reports on psychology, sustainability, and ways to make the world more delicious and just.

My ultimate advice on this point is to try and reach a climax on your own and not with a partner; only you know what feels good, and how much pressure to apply. Once you have learned how to orgasm on your own, you can then help guide a sexual partner in achieving this during sexual activity with them. 14. What to do if you’re bleeding after fingering? Bottom line, I came to learn more about how Randy Rainbow makes his videos. I came away not only with a good idea of how that happens but a genuine respect and liking for the man behind the pink eyeglasses.Fingering is a masturbation technique where you use your fingers to stimulate your genitals, it can lead to orgasms and potentially even result in squirting. According to sexpert Jess Wilde, in her YouTube video for Love Honey, she explains “squirting is the involuntary release of fluids during firm intimate stimulation.” It is a result of persistent pressure on a specific spot in your vagina, and it results in a highly intense feeling. This isn’t something to worry about too much when starting, it’s just something to be aware of. Concentrate on areas that particularly excite you, but try not to stimulate only the most obvious bits. You're likely to bring yourself to orgasm by stimulating your penis or clitoris, but it will be more arousing, and your climax more satisfying, if you explore as much of your body as possible.

I'm not a fan of biographies but after binging almost all the videos on Randy's YouTube channel during the pandemic (I became kinda obsessed because they made me feel better and I love the show tunes he uses), I had to read this one. I definitely didn't regret my choice. It may very well be impossible to read "Playing with Myself" without falling completely in love with Randy Rainbow. Rainbow's spirit radiates throughout the book and while Rainbow serves up name-drops galore, it's in an almost bewildered kind of way where he seems genuinely awed by this life that he's created for himself supported by his thousands of fans.Yes, Randy is an introvert. Yes, that is his actual name. Yes, he is awesome! How could he have not turned out that way with that mother and granny?! If you have ever done theatre, the following comment, an important point from the book for me, will make sense. In theatrical productions, people don't struggle with what they are going to say nor do they struggle to be seen. For some introverts (glad he made the shout-out to us introverts at the end), the stage is a place of rebirth and a place to be heard and seen. So the next week a few other guys heard and wanted to join. When we did the next all day Saturday there were eleven guys and me. It was getting out of hand and I decided to stop. They weren't happy but stopped cuz they wanted me there or not do it. But I sort of missed it so I ended up talking to the two original guys and one of the new guys I liked and we started again but kept it secret. How to finger your clit? There are many techniques used to masturbate when rubbing your clitoris, but the most basic and arguably most effective of them all is to rub in a circular motion or to rub from side to side. What was fundamental to brown's self-connection was deep acceptance of her body, a shift that took time.