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Ok, so, real talk — whenever I make a resource for the LGBT community (and our allies), I get a *bit* worried. The reason is because equating gender identity with honorifics (an honorific is a word like Mrs, Mr, Mx, etc) isn’t actuallyyyy how things work. Looking for more LGBT wedding ideas and gifts? Here are a few other guides I’ve written that you may love!
For example, someone may identify as a bride and use “Mx” and be non-binary lesbian. Someone may be a lesbian and use “Mx,” but not identify as a bride! There’s a whole host of things happening here. Relax! The couple knows you care about THEM and want to celebrate THEM! Gifts are wonderful (I love gifts), but what matters is your authentic support and celebration. <3 Choose a gift that makes you go, “That looks like them!” There are lots of different aesthetics in this post!