Your Neighbour’s Wife: Nail-biting suspense from the #1 bestselling author

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You want to know how to feel about this? Here are some ideas: maybe you could feel concerned about how your wife feels being called “hot” by another man. Did it make her feel uncomfortable? Was she flattered? Did it make her wish you called her hot more often? How did she feel when he grabbed her butt at a party? How does she feel knowing you saw and did nothing? I’ve been married for more than 8 years and I can say I am happily married. We are both in our mid 30’s and my husband is supportive. He completely adores me! I also love him very much. I love being with him. Actually, we have that kind of relationship everybody “envies” and considers very balanced.

I have a feeling now though that he's not going to drop it and that he's got me lined up to be a friend for his lonely wife. This is probably really mean of me, but I just don't want to. I'm working full time and I have a generally busy life, but also I just don't want the pressure of being the person who has to resolve this stranger's loneliness. I've only met her that once when he brought her out to meet me, but I have bumped into him loads of times as he's gone out to work, gardening or he's going for a run. I only ever see her sat at her living room window staring out. It feels like I've been earmarked to resolve the issue of her never going out. I think the husband is simply concerned that his wife WASN’T more upset. And who knows — maybe she wasn’t? I suspect this also freaks hubby LW out as friend is a wee bit hotter than he is… My wife said she told me because she didn’t want me to find out in another way. I’d appreciate your advice.

It’s important to be honest with yourself and with her or you might be setting yourself up for heartache down the line. Most Read Maybe things are fine now, but their relationship could develop further and where does that leave you? My wife has now told me that “it’s no reflection on me”, but she is having a sexual relationship with this woman next door.

I think there are so many words she could have used to describe the situation and/or the neighbor in a negative way and she didn’t choose any of them. She could have said he was disgusting, gross, douchy, handsy, an a**hole, or many other things and she chose none of them. If she didn’t like it she would say something negative or say that she wished he had come over when he saw what was happening or say that she froze and didn’t know what to do or that she was creeped out or that she was embarrassed. All she chose to say was that the neighbor said she was hot. She didn’t make any comment about being distressed or disgusted or hurt. She chose what she wanted to say and it was that the neighbor said she was hot. New neighbours moved in a few months ago. I saw the husband not long after they had moved in and we introduced ourselves and exchanged pleasantries. This question comes from curiosity. How many women on here would need their husband to specifically ask how she felt about the situation before she would tell him? Residents told how the leafy suburban street was flooded with emergency services at about 10.30am on Monday. We have a great marriage and I’ve never had a reason to not trust my wife, but I’m having a hard time getting over this. I’m also reluctant to see him again as I’m not sure how I might react if we happen to be in a similar situation.

My question is, should I just ignore it and leave things as they are or should I tell my wife this friendship has to stop? It hasn’t affected us in any way – we still have a healthy sex life and get along really well. The next day I texted her saying that it's highly inappropriate to walk with someone else's husband alone in the dark while their wife is at work and asked her not to include him in group chats and not to initiate activities with him when I am not present. You say you’ve never had a reason to not trust your wife, implying that maybe now you do. Because some other man called her hot and grabbed her butt at a party. You’re having a hard time getting over this, not because your wife might feel objectified, uncomfortable, or even victimized, but because YOU don’t like that someone is moving in on your territory. You know, maybe this neighbor friend isn’t the only guy treating your wife with less respect than she deserves. I don’t see this so much as what happened between your wife and the other guy — it’s important, of course, especially if your wife feels in any way unsafe or uncomfortable — but I see this as more about what is (or is not) going on between you and your wife and how your immediate and most dominant reaction is concern for YOU and YOUR feelings rather than hers. On the same day last August he resigned from a second company, ALS Trade, an IT wholesaler that he founded in March 2018.

Even if a community is a safe place to speak up, not everyone knows that or feels that. It’s a lot easier when you’re not in the position of actually saying something. And unless it’s actually played out, no one can really know for sure. She continued: “I saw them standing by the gate. Her wearing the biggest cleavage shirt I've ever seen her wear, and overall she looked like she put some thought into her outfit. But the night it happened, he just… stopped paying attention? She didn’t pull away immediately, but did she excuse herself from the conversation shortly after? That’s a pretty common response when women are uncomfortable, but don’t want to make a scene. I didn’t ask her how long he had his hand on her or if he had done this before; I suppose in hindsight I should have. We talked a bit more about it and chalked it up to alcohol, but in the past few days it’s been bothering me as I keep thinking about his hand on her and that he’s told her before that he thinks she’s hot. And this was the first time I’ve heard of it.My main thing here is the LW gave very little information. The advice really should just be for him to talk to his wife because nobody here knows what’s going on in her head and no one here was at the party. The way I would handle a situation or how I think my friends would react has no bearing on how any other random person out there would handle it or how their friends would react. Since I found out, she has been doing everything she can to show how much she wants this to work. My questions are: Should I give her another chance? Is the relationship worth it? Can this be fixed? — Mr. Wrong Sometimes