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Not only was this book entertaining it was also very educational. I loved that Oloni did extensive research into sex and relationship, consent, virginity, sexual health and range of other important topics. I loved that she was very open in this book about her own sexual experiences. She discusses the need for women to be able to enjoy sex just as much as men and offers some very helpful tips. With exclusive bonus audio material! Oloni discusses dilemmas from real women and imparts her indispensable advice. Sometimes we can’t just up and leave relationships because we’re not being satisfied, life’s just not that simple. I think every women should read this! Such an entertaining and enlightening book. In a world where the orgasm gap is still bigger than ever, this book offers golden nuggets of advice and positive talk, helping women to dispel the sex negative attitudes that society has bestowed upon them. Although, it was written from a heterosexual point of view, I felt like most of the information is applicable for us bisexuals too.
Which is a real shame because if there’s any demographic who needs to know how to nail the big O it’s us! Should an orgasm be the barometer of enjoyable sex? In one of the orgasm-gap studies I mentioned earlier, researchers wrote that, ‘Our decision to treat orgasm as a central measure of the quality of young women’s sexual experiences may be controversial. Some might see this decision as flowing from male-centred and medicalized views of sex and argue that women are not particularly concerned about orgasm’ – and while I understand this disclaimer, why can’t we treat an orgasm as a central measure? Imagine if cis men were having sex and never got to nut. Would that sex even count in their eyes? She tells Metro.co.uk: ‘For International Women’s Day, I was part of Lovehoney’s Wall of Female Empowerment. To the women who refuse to let society dictate what they should and shouldn’t do with their bodies.” That said, the content did give me a view on masturbation every woman should hear as well as tons of confidence to have conversations about sex and sexual health with my children.I have been a sex expert for over 10 years and currently work closely with the sexual wellness brand Lovehoney, providing expert comments on sex dilemmas and helping with content on key dates in the sexual calendar. However, I found that if you create content trying to educate people about a topic, no matter what the industry, over time it can become easier. The Big O" is a guide to "dating, loving & †**king", has been created to get to increase sex positivity, and to encourage women to demand more in the bedroom. I definitely enjoyed learning more about my vagina and sexual heath. Not to mention reading about kinks, different sex positions, how to make consent sexy, sexual compatibility and sex toys. This book had it all!! Orgasms are one of the most intense and euphoric feelings we can experience. In fact, the French have a term for it called la petite mort, which translates as ‘the little death’, meaning a ‘brief loss or weakening of consciousness'. My main goal is to make sure that women are having the sex that they deserve. And that they're knowledgable about the sex they deserve, as well. I wanted to empower women to learn about how to initiate the sex that they want and to be knowledgeable about the historical aspect and psychology of sex. I wanted to provide some entertainment as well! In the work that I do, I try to talk about sex as something which can be fun – something that women shouldn't shy away from.
Is it a hard industry to get into? How did you establish yourself when online it’s so oversaturated? When I first started there weren’t many people who looked like me talking about sex as it was – and is still – such a taboo topic. The ultimate sex-positive manifesto will show you how to reclaim and pursue your sexual desires, sensuality, autonomy, and pleasure. By breaking down taboos, rejecting shame, and refusing repression, we can all harness the power of sexual freedom and start enjoying the – sex – life we’ve always dreamt of. Your brain will also release the happy hormones dopamine and oxytocin, the latter of which is linked to increased social bonding (which is why you sometimes feel extra loved-up after you cum).Dami Olonisakin, better known as Oloni, is one of the UK’s biggest advocates for education and empowerment when it comes to women’s sexual rights. With more than half a million followers, she has shared her "sexpertise" and unfiltered advice for more than a decade through her award-winning blog Simply Oloni and her podcast “Laid Bare”. The ultimate sex-positive manifesto will show you how to reclaim and pursue your sexual desires, sensuality, autonomy, and pleasure. By breaking down taboos, rejecting shame, and refusing repression, we can all harness the power of sexual freedom and start enjoying the—sex—life we’ve always dreamt of. being sex positive means that you are taking responsibility for both your pleasure and sexual health. It’s not just about having sex with whoever without safe sex practice.
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