Pimping My Wife

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Wednesday Martin, whose latest book Untrue explores “why nearly everything we believe about women and lust and infidelity” is wrong: “We now know long-term relationships are harder on female desire than they are on male desire,” she says. I bet most of us entered into traditional marriages, and I understand that many of us may not have fully appreciated the monotony and the drudgery that may accompany this agreement ( not in all cases, but in a lot I hear about and observe). I think our media and society , in general, does a very poor job of preparing people for marriage and what it entails in terms of sacrifice. Expectations are way out of line with reality for a lot of people that tie the knot. I’m sorry. I did stop when you said you weren’t up for it. [By stop he means he stopped sending my pictures to random internet people, he didn’t delete his account or end sifting through other peoples profiles.] I just remember you fantasizing about it when you were drunk and I was just curious at the time. That’s why I did what I did. I’m sorry I made you feel that way. I didn’t try to hide it from you if that makes a difference. I told you about it right away. The bottom line is that I didn’t know my actions at the time would make you feel the way you do now. Otherwise I wouldn’t have done it. I’m sorry.”

That next morning during breakfast the husband looked at his wife, obviously hungover, and asked, "So... what time did you get in last night?" She gets to the front door and ever-so-gently nudges it open, not making a sound. She takes her shoes off, again not making a sound. Knowing her husband will give her hell for coming home so late and drunk, she's quite proud of herself for being so stealthy. A total of five other men were found guilty of multiple sex offences including rape, sexual assault against a child under 13 and conspiracy to arrange child prostitution and theft in relation to Spencer’s case. He thinks he can “prove me wrong” (or so he says) by opening another account in a hook-up sight, showing me we can find folks willing to do STD screenings and all this other “whatever condition you have.” He posts my picture as I am to “prove I’m still just as sexy as ever!” And it’s not just him saying it. He tells me *after the fact*. Again.

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Months later, she gleefully told this tale to us while drunk. And promptly “forgot” when she was sober. Then called us all liars and later told the manager that we were “out to get her,” when complaining that people were ignoring her and it made for a hostile work environment. But this doesn’t mean people in polyamorous, polygamous or polyandryous relationships are doomed over Hetero-monogamous couples, they just have a different set of hurdles and relationship dynamics that will never work for certain people (such as myself; I can’t romantically share my husband, I wouldn’t expect him to share me. I could never be in a plural marriage).

For some strange reason, a lot of the cheating propaganda suggests that cheating women are more interested in some sort of emotional bond vs pure sex, as opposed to men. That seems like bullshit to me, as many of the women I know, and especially those who cheat, have voracious sexual appetites. In an honest woman, that is a good thing, IMO.

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And yeah, I rolled over and took that like a bitch too when I found out and confronted him because he seemed so apologetic. I just didn’t want to deal with it I suppose. These are the important questions Western bourgeoisie men are supposed to be asking themselves, apparently.

Fast forward a few years, and I’ve had twin babies and my body just isn’t what it used to be. I’m feeling a little insecure, slightly depressed and we are going through the issues many new parents do; sleep deprivation, constant panic and worry that we might not boil the pacifier at the right temp and a baby will die of cholera (not really, but first time parents everywhere can relate), fighting, low sex drive, our in-laws are driving us up the wall… Oh, but you’re bi. Oh, but you once enjoyed a threesome. That’s besides the point. The point is CONSENT. Your husband is gaslighting you. He’s acting like you gave consent (because you once did upon a time) when you gave no such consent. This happened three times, he’s acting like him sending pictures out happened once and oops, he didn’t think you’d be upset. If we have a pleasure revolution and start to put female pleasure at the centre of our sexual universe, there’s a case to be made that that could change relationships outside the bedroom as well,” says Martin. I hope so. We’ll have to see.”

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We learn that “our primate sisters are sexual adventuresses, driven by the thrill of the unknown and unfamiliar. And not a few of them like to get busy with other females.” This also helps us understand why, statistically, women more often initiate divorce than men. Nearly 70% of all divorces happen because the woman wants out. This is especially true in the West due to the constant barrage of media messaging telling women that their husbands are losers, their husbands don’t deserve them, their husbands are worthless leeches who just take, take, take. In Western TV and film, there is the trope of the stupid, hapless father figure who is an incompetent schlub who would be nothing if he weren’t married to his talented, brilliant, beautiful wife. Anyways, that’s my life and relationship in a nut shell. We had our first round of couples counseling yesterday and I don’t think he is a narcissist or evil or intentionally trying to screw with me or hurt me; I think we have serious issues to work out (if possible) and I never went through the healthy stages of grief and what have you after the hooker choice and it’s been sitting there like a toxic bubble just under the surface impacting everything. What’s so exciting is there’s relatively new science and social science that flies in the face of the holy triumvirate of beliefs about male versus female sexuality: the first being that the male libido is stronger than the female libido; the second being that women are more naturally monogamous; and the third being that women are the enforcers of monogamy and are more cosy and domestic than men,” she says. Justify behavior or cognition by changing the conflicting cognition (“I’m allowed to cheat every once in a while”)

The reason I commented about how hard it is to decide what you really like and what you have been convinced you “should” like is that there are soooooo many influences about what you will do one day, but may not do another. I did not think about it IN GREAT DETAIL until I was 45 years old. I knew what I believed my preferences were, and what I believed was OK, but I had never questioned why. I’ve never done a one-night-stand, let alone as a married mother, so as we sobered up a few hours after the fact, it got awkward. We hightailed it out of there because neither of us knew what to say, but up until the after-the-fact part, we had fun. I had fun. Maybe it was stupid. It probably was. We didn’t get any STDs (thank the universe) But the time I told my MIL she was a control freak in desperate need of a colonoscopy was probably just as damaging and stupid in the long run; my point is people do dumb shit in the heat of the moment. I don’t know why some of you think I’m horrible for this. Who cares if he thinks it is an “okay response”? Do YOU think it is an okay response? Are you satisfied that he gets it? If you’re writing to me, I don’t think so.Amanda Spencer was jailed in 2012 and had a further three years added to her sentence in 2017 for facilitating child prostitution (Picture: SWNS) No, this is for you,” I said. He sighed and headed for the living room. “What’s wrong?” I ask. Resisting the impulse to drop to my knees and apologize for being a slut. There would be no point anyway, the damage was done, and I was addicted, I couldn’t stop if I wanted to. I asked God for a bike, but I know God doesn't work that way. So I stole a bike and asked for forgiveness. SEE ALSO: Slay Queens Pimping allegation; Nana Aba Anamoah finally replies Hon. Ken Agyapong and Afia Schwarzenegger (Screenshot) In the feminist mindset, men are predators and women are innocent victims who are preyed upon. But Islam recognizes that it takes two to tango. For every man who cheats, there is a woman who chooses to cheat with him. And, if this latest scientific research cited by Dr. Wednesday Martin is to be accepted, there are more women than men looking to cheat because women have more desire for escaping monogamy than men.