TERNENCE Small Male Chastity Device Stainless Steel Ergonomic Design Male Cock Cage K045 (45mm/ M Size)

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Wearing a chastity device means your penis is denied the full sensation you usually experience, you won’t be able to touch yourself, even when visiting the bathroom and this is going to be frustrating. Hold your flaccid penis in your hand at a 90 degree angle from your body (pointing straight away from you). Place the end of the tape measure against your pubic muscle, and lay it flat along the length of your penis. Too loose, and it could fall off while wearing it, which is an uncomfortable thing to experience if you’re wearing your cage in public.

There’s nothing hugely special about me. I’d describe myself as your typical modern, forward-thinking guy. I enjoy sports, staying healthy, love my family and friends, and have a satisfying career that pushes me to work hard so I can enjoy some of life's luxuries. Personally, I get distracted by horniness pretty often. I still manage to get my work done on time, but it’s more difficult for some guys. While not all chastity devices list a gap size, it’s usually easy to see from pictures if a cage has a large or small gap, relative to the device's size itself. Estimates can be made from the product's total length. Don’t be afraid to try multiple cages. Finding one that fits well can massively enhance your chastity experience. A snug-fitting metal cage will keep your penis from moving at all, whereas a looser plastic cage will allow for some movement and just prevent you from getting hard.Sometimes you’ll also see a measurement for the gap between the ring and the body, which can be useful if you have particularly large or high hanging testicles, but most of the time you won’t need to measure for this part. BDSM purists will say that metal is the only option for serious chastity play. They keep the penis under tight control and often allow plenty of ventilation. Chafing and circulation are a concern if they’re too tight, so make sure you apply some lubricant regularly to avoid skin damage. There are three of these clamps included with the cage, along with the usual pins and spacers. The anti-pullout feature is optional, though, so you can leave these off if you want to start slowly or simply want more freedom. Michael is the author of the Total Chastity Diary and has been in and out of chastity since his mid-thirties. He’s now 41. He lives and works in Boston, has a white-collar job, and is single by choice.

If it’s not comfortable to wear, but you want it on forever, ask yourself: “Is this worth losing my penis over?” Perhaps most importantly, you’ll be compromising on comfort. When you’re going to be wearing this device for hours, days or even weeks at a time, why not take the extra care to make sure it’s comfortable? We’ve rounded up the latest and most excellent toys to hold your member captive for all your chastity fans. Are you feeling particularly adventurous? Explore our favorite extreme sex toys or even some of the best ball stretchers to pair up with your chastity cage.You have to remember these devices aren’t tested. They’re not medical devices, so there’s basically no science telling us if they’re safe or dangerous. They can be used short-term until you’ve earned your way out or as part of a long term BDSM relationship in which you hand over the keys to someone else. So all in all it’s not worth looking for a cage you can keep on forever, at least in my opinion. Get one that fits without causing pain and leave it on until it starts to smell, then take it off to clean for a bit. Rinse and repeat. Literally. The two most important measurements are the ring diameter, and the cage length. Diameter can also help with comfort but in the majority of cases if you choose the right length, the diameter will also be correct.