Watching my wife with another man

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I glanced over at my husband as we walked out the door and he started walking out at about the same time. We went our way to his car … The plan was for my husband to follow us and I would make out with him in the parking lot giving my husband a chance to get up to the apartment first.

Horror Writing | Screenplay Writing | How To Write | Write Books | Read Write | Writing Tips | Writing Tools | Writing CommunityMy wife and I have been together for nineteen years. A few weeks ago we went to a party and both got a little drunk. Everyone at the party was having fun and dancing normally. Then a song my wife really likes was played and she went straight to the dance floor to dance with the guy who put the song on and they were the only people dancing. Don't kid yourself.... what she did can not be fixed. You will never ever look at her or love her the same way again. She is a broken person that is trying to break you.

Your "D"W may be ahead of the game and may have even taken legal advice and like others have said, she will attempt to minimise everything to begin with.They talked to each other about their sex lives, and joked about playing guitar naked and kooking naked for each other. One afternoon they were standing outside, after a lesson. One of my employees left, and he started asking her if they kan get naked together in the garage and have sex in the garage. At first she denied annything happened untill the guy's wife phoned me. What happened next according to my wife, is that out of frustration she said "If you want to get naked get naked here!". He then took out his penis and started mastrubating in front of her. She said she looked away, but I doubt it. He finished and she offered a tissue. I just feel so scared for the future - ridiculous as I'm a normally confident guy with a great job and everything appearing wonderful "on the outside".

He replied "I saw you up there" (speaking of me dancing with the stranger) "and you certainly seemed to be enjoying yourself!""AND if you had pushed up against him any harder you'd have done it right there on the dance floor" Female empowerment. I was surprised by how many of these couples embraced powerful feminist principles, and how many husbands described the joy they felt at their wife's increased independence, confidence, and assertiveness, coming from her freedom to have sex with other men. Many of the men expressed that through their wife's open sexuality, the couple was actively and consciously rejecting social pressures to suppress female sexuality, assert monogamy and patriarchal power. You are not going to believe this but my wife is a really lovely person - everybody thinks she's really nice and one of those rare all round kindly souls. She's attractive and one of those people who will do anything for anyone. Up until last night I would have described her as perfect. I found myself looking at him and wondering how good a kisser he was??? I wondered if he would make a pass or not? I wondered what he thought of me? And then dismissed those thoughts as I thought of my husband sitting at the bar…… and watching. I glanced over in his direction and saw him smiling at me.

angie asks :

It does sound to me as though he is beginning to be a little immature about this. Although I'm not sure whether you're saying that you told him very recently, or whether he's had several months to get used to the idea.

The couple say they have more sex together now. “Susie tends to be more horny before, during and then after, if she has a date. It has brought us closer together more,” says Shane. Robert's right expose these *******s for who they are at the very least so people can protect themselves from them. I struggle with seeing the situation for what it really is. I know the ****ty situation I am in, but my wife is able to fog it and make me second guess. How does one get the mind games to stop and trust that they are making the right decision to divorce? Long term I may be happy with the decision to divorce, how do I be happy with that decision in the meantime? How do I feel like I did all that I could and made the right decision for myself and my kids?

Also: How long have you been asking her, anyway? Since she's "always" refusing your requests, and all. Shot in the dark here, but I'm thinking it might be time to give this up. Ask her about her fantasies, and then listen to understand and get to know her better —not just to get what you want. Deep connection can lead to deeper intimacy. Maybe you won't be inviting guests into your bedroom, but I'll bet you two can find a way to meet somewhere in the middle.